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shehatesme
Feb 22, 2009, 08:01 PM
My mom doesn't want me. She wants me out the house because she can't stand me. I cannot be emancipated because I am only 14. I can not be adopted because she says no one will want me. What am I supposed to do?
I am an honor student and I try so hard. She sees me as a "burden"

JudyKayTee
Feb 22, 2009, 08:03 PM
Legally this is emotional abuse and you can go to any Police Station, report it and ask to be put into the foster care system. There will be a hearing scheduled.

You can also talk to someone at your school or Church and ask for assistance.

ChihuahuaMomma
Feb 22, 2009, 08:08 PM
Age of emancipation depends on the state that you live in...

shehatesme
Feb 22, 2009, 08:10 PM
I can't I do not want to be anywhere else I want to live with my mom I know I am too old to be entered in a system where I will just be thrown from one home to another. I can't go to a teacher because I don't want to be in a foster home. I am not in a church because religion "does not run in this family" my mom will not take me. I can not support myself at this age. What else can I do?

Fr_Chuck
Feb 22, 2009, 08:11 PM
Legally she can not just put you out, where is your father in this, what about fathers family or mothers family

What is it about you that bothers her?

But yes if she kicks you out, just go to the local police station for assistance

ChihuahuaMomma
Feb 22, 2009, 08:12 PM
Are your parents married? Where is your father? Are there family members that would be happy to home you?

shehatesme
Feb 22, 2009, 08:12 PM
I live in Texas and the legal age is at least 16 I will be 15 this August

ChihuahuaMomma
Feb 22, 2009, 08:15 PM
I assume you mean age of consent... and it's actually 17 in Texas...

I'm looking up emancipation laws in Texas.

shehatesme
Feb 22, 2009, 08:15 PM
My dad is not in the picture he gave up custody of me and my sister and wouldn't want either of us no matter what. She raised me and has been hating me for a while . She wants me gone and I want to be gone. I am just unable to take care of myself.

ChihuahuaMomma
Feb 22, 2009, 08:17 PM
You just said that you didn't want to leave. What about other family members?

Wondergirl
Feb 22, 2009, 08:18 PM
I don't understand. She hates you and you want to be emancipated so you can get away from her, but you say you don't want to leave her ("I want to live with my mom").

shehatesme
Feb 22, 2009, 08:21 PM
If you're a mom can you please tell me what would make you want to kick your kid out? I'm not a bad kid I make good grades I never get into trouble I do chores I help her I try so hard and I can't understand what I did wrong I just need to know why I can't be loved anymore. What would make you want one child and not the other?

ChihuahuaMomma
Feb 22, 2009, 08:23 PM
If I was a mother, NOTHING would make me kid my child out. Not only is it illegal and morally wrong. But it's teaching tons of bad ideals to that kid.

shehatesme
Feb 22, 2009, 08:24 PM
I want to live with her I love her so much. And I can't leave my sister. She's my world.
If it will make her happy that I am gone I do not want to be her burden. I would do anything.

shehatesme
Feb 22, 2009, 08:30 PM
Its illegal?

Wondergirl
Feb 22, 2009, 08:32 PM
I want to live with her I love her so much. and i can't leave my sister. Shes my world.
if it will make her happy that i am gone i do not want to be her burden. I would do anything.
All right. Sit and think for a minute. You've lived there all your life. Has anything changed? When did her attitude toward you change? What had happened? Is she blaming you for something, even if it wasn't your fault?

twinkiedooter
Feb 22, 2009, 08:32 PM
You have not really answered why your mother considers you a burden to her? In what way?

Justwantfair
Feb 22, 2009, 08:39 PM
Is there a possibility that as a single mother in this economy you are getting some negative feedback as the oldest child?

Is your mother under a lot of personal pressures? And taking it out on you inappropriately?

Maybe your mother needs some intervention? Assistance? It is doubtful that she hates you, but unfortunately it maybe she is having some misplaced anger.

Does this sound relevant?

shehatesme
Feb 22, 2009, 08:42 PM
Its always been like this its just gotten worse.

ChihuahuaMomma
Feb 22, 2009, 08:44 PM
Does she say that she hates you? Does she have an alcohol or drug problem?

shehatesme
Feb 22, 2009, 08:46 PM
She has a stable job
Her boyfriends have been horrible we moved in with one of them one time and he kicked us out like all the time and she got her own place and then it just got worse. I don't know why she always says its my life so why does she have to care. And I tell her I love her everyday isn't that what I am supposed to do? I don't know what I did wrong...

shehatesme
Feb 22, 2009, 08:47 PM
She drinks and she says it. But not in that nice of a way sometimes.

Justwantfair
Feb 22, 2009, 08:48 PM
Does she drink often?

shehatesme
Feb 22, 2009, 08:54 PM
I have to go make dinner I will come back as soon as I can. Thank you so much for helping and caring .