I hate using the word like :x

Anyway, a sophomore named Lea I've had a crush on for a while likes me a little (err, a little by what she says at least :p). Anyway, she also has a crush on a junior, who may or may not like her back.

Yesterday we talked from 9-1, hung out from 1:30-10, and talked from 10:30-2 (AM). She said it was the best night she ever had with a guy before. :o We just instantly connected; we talked about EVERYTHING. We went to A.C. Moore and found we had a lot in common, and we had fun just looking around at everything and buying random things we saw.

Anyway, later that night (or morning), she said that she was confused/didn't know what to do. She said she'd decide how she felt after Monday, when she is going to hang out with the Junior. I told her that there was no pressure, and I wouldn't be mad if she picked the Junior cause I'd be supporting her. And she said she appreciated that (score! :))

I have three questions.

a) What do you think my chances are?

z) Do you think the fact that she is deciding after hanging out with the Junior will affect her decision at all.

12) Did I play it out right? :confused:

Thanks :)

I think you have a 50/50 chance of being the chosen. The fact that she is looking at her options is a good thing in my opinion. Still being in high school and feeling totally devoted to one guy is very strange. I think she is an intelligent girl who is checking out all her possibilities and then making an informed decision. From what you have told me here, I can find nothing wrong with the way you proceeded that evening. Don't forget however, that girls don't usually like clingy boys who can't ever let them alone. I'm not saying you did anything wrong, but remember, when she asks for space it's not that she is mad at you, just that she needs to think. Good Luck! Hope I helped..

Thanks for replying, and don't worry Im really not clingy at all :P

Wow... well I have the same situation I'm dating a guy who is one year younger than me and he's the best boyfriend I've ever had... so you know you have a chance but so does the junior I guess you will just have to wait and see who she picks... sry good luck though.. :)

It's never easy, but I can tell you this for sure, if she picks the other dude and they don't work out, be there to support her and as soon as she moves past him, give her a while, and then jump right in and win her over! I've been with my boyfriend 8 months and the reason why I love him most is cause he's ALWAYS been there for me. You sound like you're similar to him, really caring and respectful, so if things don't go like you wished for them to, no worries, just hang in there and you'll get her when she's ready :)

You've done the best you can.

If she's smart she'll pick you and if not well... you win some, you lose some...

Have to say though you've conducted yourself really well throughout the situation.

Best of Luck, I'll have my fingers crossed for you. Keep us updated :D

Tomorrow we're hanging out. She told me she's going to show me her "secret hiding place", which I'm hoping is so we can be somewhere privately for a little bit and hopefully she'll tell me her decision right then and there.

I don't know... :confused:

What do you think what she said refers to? Saying it just because, or was she implying something? :eek: