nanababies3
Feb 19, 2009, 05:53 PM
My son and ex-daughter in law were married in CA 2005 and divorced CA 8-17-08. There is joint custody of their only child. Dad gets him 6 months, Mom gets him 6 months. The child is 3 yr old now. My son lives in Tacoma, WA.
Problem is Mom let him go to Dad in June 2008 and Called and talked to their child on his birthday in Oct. 2008 and then called Christmas Day but my son told her that the child was with me visiting with us (Grandparents) for a bit and to call our house but she said no she didn't want to call. That is the last time she has inquired about her son and she did say in Oct that she lived in Louisana but she wouldn't say with who or exactly where at first but she relented and said with who. She is back to living with the man who abused my grandson and alledgely molested him when he was 1yr old. The abuse is certain I was there the molestion the therapist are still working on. She still has not said where in Louisana she is but she is doing adult films and prostution to support herself and her other child who is 1 yr old.
My question is this abandonment of a child? My son is afraid to rock the boat legally cause he is afraid that the law will look at him as kidnapping his son, he wants to file for full custody but like I said he is afraid. She is vindictive. I have had my grandson on and off since birth when they all lived with me and the mom lived with me up until August 2008.
He's told the mother that as long as she is with the man she is with now she cannot have her son back due to the abuse from before.
Thank you
Problem is Mom let him go to Dad in June 2008 and Called and talked to their child on his birthday in Oct. 2008 and then called Christmas Day but my son told her that the child was with me visiting with us (Grandparents) for a bit and to call our house but she said no she didn't want to call. That is the last time she has inquired about her son and she did say in Oct that she lived in Louisana but she wouldn't say with who or exactly where at first but she relented and said with who. She is back to living with the man who abused my grandson and alledgely molested him when he was 1yr old. The abuse is certain I was there the molestion the therapist are still working on. She still has not said where in Louisana she is but she is doing adult films and prostution to support herself and her other child who is 1 yr old.
My question is this abandonment of a child? My son is afraid to rock the boat legally cause he is afraid that the law will look at him as kidnapping his son, he wants to file for full custody but like I said he is afraid. She is vindictive. I have had my grandson on and off since birth when they all lived with me and the mom lived with me up until August 2008.
He's told the mother that as long as she is with the man she is with now she cannot have her son back due to the abuse from before.
Thank you