:If I have been invited to my ex boyfriends cousins 21 st birthday party my ex boyfriend then gets told that I will be there what to make of it if he ask;s why is everyone so close with me...

How long have you been broken up?

How old are the two of you?

Do you feel as though you are ready and comfortable enough with the situation to see him now?

We all make friends with family members and it can sometimes be very hard to break those ties, but in the end, you got to think about what is best for you... if this cousin cares about you, they'll understand.

Hi we have been dating for 6 months and broken up almost for month or so... reason for break up I'm very independat and do things on my own I work and I'm a single parent I drive a smart car and its so complicated my son is 2 year old as he is also a single parent to a 3 year old... both our kids attend the same school... even explaing it is really hard I'm 25 and he will be 25 soon... even though we apart I still care for him... and want him back... I think the main reason why we apart is merely because of who I am...

Go to the party enjoy yourself and let things go naturally. You are worrying too much about what ifs

Exactly - just go have a good time and see how things go.

No point asking yourself all these questions, you are absolutely fine and normal in feeling how you do.

Just have fun :)

Go to the party to have fun, and be fun. Not worry about what an ex might say.

The party was great all eyes where on me... before our break up I arranged an interview for him... and I new he thought I'm lyingh about the work so strange I was at home wes he comes to my house on Monday he then receives the call to start working... we work in the same building different dep... I really need to get him back what to do