I want to start divorce proceedings, where do I start?
I am residing in RSA

Not sure where RSA is, can you help us with location.

But several issues, are their kids invovled, is there property to divide,
Do both parties agree to the divorce and do both parties agree to ALL, of the terms of getting divorced

RSA - Republic of South Africa... there are no children involved, no property etc.. and it's a mutual decision.

You might try here. There are links on the right hand side for Divorce in South africa.

http://www.international-divorce.com/divorce-jurisdiction.htm