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teastalk
Feb 15, 2009, 09:12 PM
Do you still like your ex?
Do you hate your ex?
Do you never think about your ex?

Why?

Be honest. ;) LOL!

neverme
Feb 15, 2009, 09:19 PM
Well the most recent ex, I still love and at the moment feel like I always will but since she's already with someone else, it's getting easier to dislike her some! :p

The ex before that I didn't speak to for over three years because we kept sleeping with each other and other such massively unhealthy things! But he recently came back into my life and we had a big talk and put so much of the issues we had had to bed. I had forgiven him a long time ago but now I can think of him and smile.

I truly gave my heart to both of these people and feel like they will each always have a place in my heart, we just stopped working you no?

What about you? What do you think?

teastalk
Feb 15, 2009, 09:36 PM
The person to whom I refer to as my semi-ex is someone who I have no feelings about or for whatsoever anymore (at first it was real real different). It's similar to asking me about the first random stranger on the street. (I refer to him as a semi-ex because we said we liked each other, but supposedly never went on a "real" date or were in a relationship.) Confusing, I know!

The second person to whom I refer to as my first real boyfriend, I think I really didn't like him for a while. Now, I don't feel anything about it. Sometimes I think of the good things he did, but at the same time the bad things he did was unacceptable.

kctiger
Feb 16, 2009, 06:51 AM
Do you still like your ex?

Not sure what you mean by like. I am relatively indifferent to my ex...



Do you hate your ex?

Why in the world would I waste time hating my ex...not very productive in my eyes.


Do you never think about your ex?

Usually only when I see one of the many "chick flicks" come on television that she used to make me watch. It is only then I see how poor her taste truly was ;)


Why?

My life doesn't revolve around my "ex." I think that until you are truly over a break up, you will still answer yes to one of the above questions, usually in a negative way. Wasting time on any of that stuff means you aren't over her/him, and you are giving up valuable energy that should be used to better yourself.


Be honest. ;) LOL!

This is the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth...so help me Tal...

ISneezeFunny
Feb 16, 2009, 07:35 AM
Do you still like your ex?
Do you hate your ex?
Do you never think about your ex?

Why?

Be honest. ;) LOL!

Do I still like my ex? no. not really.

Do I hate my ex? no. not really.

Do I ever think about my ex? Sure.

I don't hate her, I don't like her... I just want to be left alone by her.

zeeniee
Feb 16, 2009, 07:50 AM
Do I still like my ex? No not anymore- he is a very different person from the one I knew...

Do I hate my ex? I would say I dislike him at the moment because of the way he went about things when I found out he was cheating. I don't know if the word hate is the correct word, dislike is more the right word.

Do I ever think about my ex? Yes I do- now and then- I am still coming to terms with what happened, but I don't think of him in a romantic way so much, if I do it is purely due to the memories I have of him when he was a good person

UnluckyDucky
Feb 16, 2009, 08:27 AM
Do you still like your ex?
-No. The person she has let herself become is quite unattractive to me.

Do you hate your ex?
-No I don't. I pity her more than anything...

Do you never think about your ex?
-Yes I do, but as the days go by I find myself thinking of her less and less.