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shank90
Feb 10, 2009, 11:48 PM
Well I'm an 18 y/o boy that just can't seem to get a break in life. Not material wise though I do believe I have everything that I want. My parents are nice, giving, and loving. There is just one problem though, I seem to be un-dateable I don't know why. Im not the kind of guy to push for sex or any kind of stuff like that I just want a meaningful relationship but can never seem to keep any kind of relation for more than a few weeks. This has happened for so long that I have decided to just stop dating all-together and it worked wonders for about a year. I have tried again but its just the same stuff different day. I really think that there is no help for me any more and I just keep getting more and more depressed. Can someone shed some light on the situation? I just want to feel some feeling of being wanted.

Wondergirl
Feb 10, 2009, 11:54 PM
Tell me about yourself. What do you like to eat? What do you consider a fun activity?Which authors have you enjoyed? Do you have any pets? Wht position are you among your siblings? What would I like most about you? Least?

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 12:10 AM
Tell me about yourself. What do you like to eat? What do you consider a fun activity?Which authors have you enjoyed? Do you have any pets? Wht position are you among your siblings? What would I like most about you? Least?

Well I like to eat... hmm well there is almost nothing I don't eat
The most fun activity to me is soccer
I don't really read a lot but I liked the book Anthem I just can't remember who wrote it
I had one pet my dog trixie she got hit by a fedex truck one day as I was getting off the bus.
I'm a middle child
You might like the fact that I will try to do anything to help or fix any problem even if it hurts me
You also might dislike that many people do I don't know
I just want to feel loved by someone that's not family or friend

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 12:16 AM
Well i like to eat .... hmm well there is almost nothing i dont eat
The most fun activity to me is soccer
i don't really read alot but i liked the book Anthem i just can't remember who wrote it
i had one pet my dog trixie she got hit by a fedex truck one day as i was getting off the bus.
im a middle child
you might like the fact that i will try to do anything to help or fix any problem even if it hurts me
you also might dislike that many people do idk
i just want to feel loved by someone thats not family or friend
Anthem - Ayn Rand??

It's after 1 a.m. here in Chicagoland and I have to go to bed.

The best girlfriend would be one who started as just a friend. Are there any possibilities like that? Are you in school yet? What are your career plans?

I'll check back in the morning. Tell me more stuff about who you are. (And where do you live?? )

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 12:24 AM
Anthem - Ayn Rand????

It's after 1 a.m. here in Chicagoland and I have to go to bed.

The best girlfriend would be one who started out as just a friend. Are there any possibilities like that? Are you in school yet? What are your career plans?

I'll check back in the morning. Tell me more stuff about who you are. (And where do you live???)

Yeah its after 1 here to I can't sleep
Umm no possibilities for a girlfriend that's starts as a friend I uh guess I'm not that type of guy
I'm in my senior year
I am going to Our Lady of the Lake college to be a radiologist technician
I just like to have fun but lately I've been to depressed to do anything fun.
I live in Louisiana though I was born in New York

Clough
Feb 11, 2009, 12:29 AM
Hi, shank90!

Aren't there any groups or clubs in which you could get involved where you could meet girls with whom you could become friends?

Thanks!

kctiger
Feb 11, 2009, 07:10 AM
You are 18. There is no reason to expect a serious, meaningful relationship right now. I didn't have my first serious relationship until I was 21, and that was because I refused to settle for someone that didn't click with me. Don't worry about these things, just enjoy your life, and I PROMISE eventually you will find yourself involved with someone that you could see yourself spending the rest of your life with... then, you will probably get your heart broken... but, that is apart of life.

I know, Debbie Downer huh? Just enjoy, and don't expect, that's all.

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 02:52 PM
You are 18. There is no reason to expect a serious, meaningful relationship right now. I didn't have my first serious relationship until I was 21, and that was because I refused to settle for someone that didn't click with me. Don't worry about these things, just enjoy your life, and I PROMISE eventually you will find yourself involved with someone that you could see yourself spending the rest of your life with...then, you will probably get your heart broken...but, that is apart of life.

I know, Debbie Downer huh? Just enjoy, and don't expect, that's all.

Yea your probably right but I just had so many bad experiences that I don't know it I even want to pursue any kind of relation any more I feel like if I just stay down in the dumps and never be happy then there is no way some one cane make me feel any worse and I would know what to expect every day.

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 02:59 PM
Hi, shank90!

Aren't there any groups or clubs in which you could get involved where you could meet girls with whom you could become friends?

Thanks!

Um I was going to get in the math and science club but I was to late but other than that there is not too much going on in this P.O.S town

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 03:04 PM
um i was going to get in the math and science club but i was to late but other than that there is not too much going on in this P.O.S town
Too late?

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 03:20 PM
too late?

Yea I missed the sign up deadline for it

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 03:36 PM
yea i missed the sign up deadline for it
Join a different one. The yearbook one.

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 03:37 PM
Well I'm an 18 y/o boy that just can't seem to get a break in life.
You don't GET breaks -- you MAKE them. What have you done for yourself lately?

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 04:03 PM
Join a different one. The yearbook one.

Its way too late to join anything now

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 04:08 PM
You don't GET breaks -- you MAKE them. What have you done for yourself lately?

I have tried to talk to this one girl from childhood as friends and that worked great for a while but then we started to go to the movies and stuff like that then one day she called me to her house to just chill which was fun but then the next day she wouldn't talk to me or text or answer calls nothing she just stopped I don't know what happened

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 04:10 PM
i have tried to talk to this one girl from childhood as friends and that worked great for a while but then we started to go to the movies and stuff like that then one day she called me to her house to just chill which was fun but then the next day she wouldn't talk to me or text or answer calls nothing she just stopped idk what happened
So then ask someone else out. Ever ask out a shy girl or a plump one or one who probably doesn't get many or any dates?

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 04:21 PM
So then ask someone else out. Ever ask out a shy girl or a plump one or one who probably doesn't get many or any dates?

Yes I have and it was really awkward and then she dumped me cause she said I wasn't what she was looking for. Now that's all well and good I understand that but how come the very next morning I saw her kissing on another guy

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 04:26 PM
yes i have and it was really awkward and then she dumped me cause she said i wasn't what she was looking for. Now thats all well and good i understand that but how come the very next morning i saw her kissing on another guy
So what. Then ask out someone else. You got to kiss a lot of frogettes before you find your princess.

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 04:36 PM
So what. Then ask out someone else. You gotta kiss a lot of frogettes before you find your princess.

Yeah but then ill get warts haha
No but uhh I see what your saying that makes a lot of sense but I think what it is is that I'm just way to sensitive to rejected all the time or something like that it just hurts a lot and it feels really weird saying that.

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 04:41 PM
yeah but then ill get warts haha
no but uhh i see what your saying that makes a lot of sense but i think what it is is that im just way to sensitive to rejected all the time or something like that it just hurts a lot and it feels really weird saying that.
You're the only one who gets rejected all the time?? Stick around and read the questions that get posted on this site. I can't believe anyboy finds anybody based on what I read here.

Just shrug your shoulders and say "So what!" and keep asking girls out. After one date, you don't even have a relationship to get upset about losing. Sheesh.

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 04:45 PM
On your next date, tell her you are doing a kissing survey. You will kiss her at the end of the date and she is the judge of how you did based on how romantic it was, how honest, how messy, how effective, etc. You very much need her input. Ask her how you can improve on your kissing technique.

Or ask her about your dating style.

She's just a date, not your next wife.

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 04:49 PM
You're the only one who gets rejected all the time?????????? Stick around and read the questions that get posted on this site. I can't believe anyboy finds anybody based on what I read here.

Just shrug your shoulders and say "So what!" and keep asking girls out. After one date, you don't even have a relationship to get upset about losing. Sheesh.

Yeah but it sounds like your getting mad I appreciate the help a lot I really do but its nothing to get mad over

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 05:32 PM
yeah but it sounds like your getting mad i appreciate the help a lot i really do but its nothing to get mad over
I'm not mad at all! I'm remembering all the angst and worry I had when I was your age and how stupid it all was. I'm giving you the precious gift of my many years of dating and vast experience and supreme intelligence.

And if I were mad, so what. It has nothing to do with you. It has everything to do with me. Stop taking rejection personally. You end up being a self-imposed victim and then will start whining like a martyr does. You don't want to be a victim and a martyr, do you?

Feeling rejection every time a girl frowns at you or kisses another guy or doesn't text you back again is soooooooooooooo counterproductive. You should feel ELATED that she's one more frogette out of your life and one you don't have to think about any longer.

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 06:41 PM
I'm not mad at all! I'm remembering all the angst and worry I had when I was your age and how stupid it all was. I'm giving you the precious gift of my many years of dating and vast experience and supreme intelligence.

And if I were mad, so what. It has nothing to do with you. It has everything to do with me. Stop taking rejection personally. You end up being a self-imposed victim and then will start whining like a martyr does. You don't want to be a victim and a martyr, do you?

Feeling rejection every time a girl frowns at you or kisses another guy or doesn't text you back again is soooooooooooooo counterproductive. You should feel ELATED that she's one more frogette out of your life and one you don't have to think about any longer.

Yeah like I said I really do appreciate all your doing. But you've raised another question I really don't know how not to take rejection personally

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 06:50 PM
yeah like i said i really do appreciate all your doing. but you've raised another question i really don't know how not to take rejection personally
Just decide not to take it personally. It's your choice, after all. Reframe it. Think about all those frogettes. You've rejected or ignored a ton of girls yourself. How do they feel?

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 07:12 PM
Just decide not to take it personally. It's your choice, after all. Reframe it. Think about all those frogettes. You've rejected or ignored a ton of girls yourself. How do they feel?

Yea I see... I don't think I've ever rejected a girl before now I can be wrong I just don't believe I have anytime a girl asked me which was like 3 times I agreed to go out.

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 07:23 PM
yea i see.... i don't think i've ever rejected a girl before now i can be wrong i just dont believe i have anytime a girl asked me which was like 3 times i agreed to go out.
What about all those girls you've never asked out on a date?

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 07:30 PM
What about all those girls you've never asked out on a date?

Well they didn't miss out on much

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 07:51 PM
well they didn't miss out on much
Bingo! There's your problem. You don't like you very much. If even you don't like you, how can anyone else like you? You attract what you project. Stop putting out such awful vibes!!

Tell me how tomorrow will be different, will be an improvement. Promise me you will make one small change, one improvement in how you project yourself.

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 08:28 PM
Bingo! There's your problem. You don't like you very much. If even you don't like you, how can anyone else like you? You attract what you project. Stop putting out such awful vibes!!!

Tell me how tomorrow will be different, will be an improvement. Promise me you will make one small change, one improvement in how you project yourself.

Yeah OK I accept your challenge I'm starting to understand some more
I uh I will instead of listening to my iPod all day during school I might try to talk to people is that what your talking about?

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 08:54 PM
Yeah ok i accept your challenge i'm starting to understand some more
i uh i will instead of listening to my ipod all day during school i might try to talk to people is that what your talking about?
"Some people" is kind of vague. Let's fancy that up a little bit and get more specific. Who? What could you say (generally)? How will you look and act? Will you be a good listener or will you babble your head off?

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 09:08 PM
"Some people" is kinda vague. Let's fancy that up a little bit and get more specific. Who? What could you say (generally)? How will you look and act? Will you be a good listener or will you babble your head off?

Argg your to strict but still I accept I won't just talk like an airhead I will simply converse. But with who I can't really say I will just know the right moment like when I usually try to back away and stay solitaire I will instead try to make the situation more comfortable by uh breaking the ice I think its called. I will ask how people are doing and stuff like that and try not to look nervous all the time.

Clough
Feb 11, 2009, 09:11 PM
Originally Posted by Clough

Hi, shank90!

Aren't there any groups or clubs in which you could get involved where you could meet girls with whom you could become friends?


Originally Posted by shank90

Um I was going to get in the math and science club but I was to late but other than that there is not too much going on in this P.O.S town.

Hi again, shank90!

Thanks for answering my question that I asked you much earlier on this thread! What was in that post is quoted above.

Do you participate in music or sports activities as a player or musician, please?

Thanks!

Wondergirl
Feb 11, 2009, 09:12 PM
argg your to strict but still i accept i wont just talk like an airhead i will simply converse. but with who i can't really say i will just know the right moment like when i usually try to back away and stay solitaire i will instead try to make the situation more comfortable by uh breaking the ice i think its called. i will ask how people are doing and stuff like that and try not to look nervous all the time.
You will simply be a good listener - and don't have to carry the conversation. Say stuff like "Wow!" or "Cool!" or "Tell me more" or "You don't say....." and do good eye contact and look interested, even smile a little. Girls LOVE to talk so practice with one of them.

I want a report tomorrow evening. Before midnight. Don't forget.

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 09:59 PM
You will simply be a good listener - and don't have to carry the conversation. Say stuff like "Wow!" or "Cool!" or "Tell me more" or "You don't say....." and do good eye contact and look interested, even smile a little. Girls LOVE to talk so practice with one of them.

I want a report tomorrow evening. Before midnight. Don't forget.

OK well I have to go to bed I will talk tomorrow
Again thanks a lot.

shank90
Feb 11, 2009, 11:47 PM
Hi again, shank90!

Thanks for answering my question that I asked you much earlier on this thread! What was in that post is quoted above.

Do you participate in music or sports activities as a player or musician, please?

Thanks!

Yes I play the guitar piano and trombone
My favorite sport probably cause it's the one that I'm best at is soccer

Clough
Feb 12, 2009, 02:23 AM
Yes i play the guitar piano and trombone
my favorite sport prolly cause its the one that im best at is soccer

That's great! Then we can go from there! I was hoping that you at least played some kind of instrument!

Wondergirl is wonderful! Please do follow her advice! I can help you to do some things that might help you to feel better about yourself that maybe might make you feel more attractive and also how you might attract others as well as realize your full potential as to what you might have to offer someone with whom you might want to become intimate.

Later...

Thanks!

BabyDoll22
Feb 12, 2009, 12:56 PM
Hi shank90 am BabyDoll I think you just haven't found the right person for you. But don't worry in time you will find someone who wants the same thing you want. You seem like a nice person and there is someone for everyone.

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 01:51 PM
That's great! Then we can go from there! I was hoping that you at least played some kind of instrument!

Wondergirl is wonderful! Please do follow her advice! I can help you to do some things that might help you to feel better about yourself that maybe might make you feel more attractive and also how you might attract others as well as realize your full potential as to what you might have to offer someone with whom you might want to become intimate.

Later...

Thanks!

Cool thanks for the input I would love the advice

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 01:55 PM
hi shank90 am BabyDoll I think you just haven't found the right person for you. but don't worry in time you will find someone who wants the same thing you want. you seem like a nice person and their is somone for everyone.

Thanks that was nice I'm just still wondering if that one person is out there ( or as Wondergirl would say any froggetts )

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 02:00 PM
You will simply be a good listener - and don't have to carry the conversation. Say stuff like "Wow!" or "Cool!" or "Tell me more" or "You don't say....." and do good eye contact and look interested, even smile a little. Girls LOVE to talk so practice with one of them.

I want a report tomorrow evening. Before midnight. Don't forget.

Hey, school went pretty well today I did talk to some people that I never talked and I think that I got noticed more by more people

Clough
Feb 12, 2009, 02:10 PM
Then, it looks like you're making some progress! Please keep up the good work! It just takes some effort and practice!

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 02:17 PM
Then, it looks like you're making some progress! Please keep up the good work! It just takes some effort and practice!

Yeah but its just so much easier just to be unknown and out the way that does make me feel pretty crappy though

Clough
Feb 12, 2009, 02:22 PM
Being involved with and having relationships with others takes effort and maintenance.

There's also going to be risks involved.

You're going to get hurt from time to time. That's just normal. The amount of benefits from being involved with others outweighs the risks and bad things that might occasionally happen.

Clough
Feb 12, 2009, 02:44 PM
How well do you play the piano, shank90?

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 02:44 PM
Being involved with and having relationships with others takes effort and maintenance.

There's also going to be risks involved.

You're going to get hurt from time to time. That's just normal. The amount of benefits from being involved with others outweighs the risks and bad things that might occasionally happen.

Yeah buddy I hear that

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 02:47 PM
How well do you play the piano, shank90?

Uh not very but give the sheet music and I can play it within 2 hrs
I am pretty good at the trombone though that's what I learned in middle school
And the guitar was going to just be a hobby but now I have 4 of them and try to play at least 2 times a day

Clough
Feb 12, 2009, 02:48 PM
I'm glad that you're trying more! :)

Wondergirl
Feb 12, 2009, 02:55 PM
yeah but its just so much easier just to be unknown and out the way that does make me feel pretty crappy though
But isn't it much more fun and exciting to take a risk now and then like you did today?? Who wants boring and crappy?

(I'm so proud of you! I'm typing this at work -- had to check in to see if you're back from school yet. Thanks for not disappointing me! )

Clough
Feb 12, 2009, 02:56 PM
What are the hardest pieces that you've played on the piano, please?

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 09:43 PM
But isn't it much more fun and exciting to take a risk now and then like you did today???? Who wants boring and crappy?

(I'm so proud of you!! I'm typing this at work -- had to check in to see if you're back from school yet. Thanks for not disappointing me!!)

Yea your probably right
Aww your proud of me shouldn't you be working ;)
I try to never disappoint anybody but no matter how hard I try I always to seem disappoint someone. But that's is were I get my motto : you can't please 100% of the people 100% of the time

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 09:46 PM
What are the hardest pieces that you've played on the piano, please?

Well the hardest one I've played was that song in twilight called the river flows in you but I'm starting to get it

Clough
Feb 12, 2009, 09:50 PM
Hi, shank90!

Have you played any classically styled piano music, like Beethoven, Brahms, Chopin, etc. If so, what were some of the pieces, please?

Thanks!

Clough
Feb 12, 2009, 10:19 PM
I just listened to the piece that you mentioned, shank90.

YouTube - Edward and Bella - River flows in you (twilight) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4TBDrp-Qjpc)

It's absolutely beautiful! :) When you get that piece down, you should be able to turn-on and woo any woman with it! ;)

I was not aware of that piece or the film. Sadly, my keepers don't let me out much... and even then, only at night when most people aren't around! :(

You've just given me a new piece to add to my repertoire!

Now, I do have idea as to how hard of music it is that you can play on the piano.

Thanks!

Wondergirl
Feb 12, 2009, 10:27 PM
This is wonderful! It's the kind of music I listen to all weekend. Artists who play in this style are David Lanz and Jim Brickman.

Clough
Feb 12, 2009, 10:37 PM
I compose, play and improvise in that style also! There's also George Winston to add to the list of those who compose, play and especially him, improvise in that style.

Thanks!

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 10:40 PM
I just listened to the piece that you mentioned, shank90.

YouTube - Edward and Bella - River flows in you (twilight) (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4TBDrp-Qjpc)

It's absolutely beautiful! :) When you get that piece down, you should be able to turn-on and woo any woman with it! ;)

I was not aware of that piece or the film. Sadly, my keepers don't let me out much... and even then, only at night when most people aren't around! :(

You've just given me a new piece to add to my repertoire!

Now, I do have idea as to how hard of music it is that you can play on the piano.

Thanks!
" keepers"
I'm glad you like that song it is a good one but kind of technical

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 10:44 PM
I compose, play and improvise in that style also! There's also George Winston to add to the list of those who compose, play and especially him, improvise in that style.

Thanks!

Cool a composer that's awesome
I have been trying this song for the guitar its kind of funny though I keep hearing this song right before I fall asleep but I can never remember it and I'm so in a daze that I can't get up and grab my guitar.

klynngp
Feb 12, 2009, 10:49 PM
Hey,
You are 18 not 80 you have a whole life time to find a meaningful relationship. Learn to care about yourself the good about you. Knowone can make you happy and feel happy. Once you love yourself then you will attract others like a magnet. You sound like a very nice caring person, you have to beleave in yourself. If you are becoming depressed you may want to go to counseling, it helps!

Wondergirl
Feb 12, 2009, 11:01 PM
I compose, play and improvise in that style also! There's also George Winston to add to the list of those who compose, play and especially him, improvise in that style.
I was going to mention him (my first experience with this type of music). I had called Carl Fischer, the big music store in the Chicago Loop, to ask if they had Winston's sheet music. They said if only they had a dollar for every time someone asked that question... and no, he does improv, and it's not written down. That was in the mid-80s so maybe there are fake books now??

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 11:02 PM
Hey,
You are 18 not 80 you have a whole life time to find a meaningful relationship. Learn to care about yourself the good about you. Knowone can make you happy and feel happy. Once you love yourself then you will attract others like a magnet. You sound like a very nice caring person, you have to beleave in yourself. If you are becoming depressed you may want to go to counseling, it helps!!

Thanks yea this site is pretty much my therapy there are some very nice people that know what you've been through and will always say the things you need to hear.
I'm really thankful.

Wondergirl
Feb 12, 2009, 11:02 PM
cool a composer thats awesome
i have been trying this song for the guitar its kinda funny though i keep hearing this song right before i fall asleep but i can never remember it and im so in a daze that i can't get up and grab my guitar.
It's something original, from inside your head?

Can you write music?

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 11:23 PM
It's something original, from inside your head?

Can you write music?

Its definitely like nothing I've never herd before its like coming from my subconscious mind its kind of creepy
I can only write in the bass clef for trombone and tabs for guitar

Wondergirl
Feb 12, 2009, 11:30 PM
its definitely like nothing ive never herd before its like coming from my subconscious mind its kinda creepy
i can only write in the bass clef for trombone and tabs for guitar
Is it the same all the time? Get a tape recorder and hum it?

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 11:42 PM
Is it the same all the time? Get a tape recorder and hum it?

See that's the thing I can only hear it when I am just about to sleep like right before the dreaming stage or something like that and if I wake myself up its gone it is really annoying

Wondergirl
Feb 12, 2009, 11:46 PM
see thats the thing i can only hear it when i am just about to sleep like right before the dreaming stage or something like that and if i wake myself up its gone it is really annoying
It sure sounds like it would be annoying!

It's almost 1 here, and I have to go to bed soon.

What are your plans for Friday? Will you do something fun or exciting or daring or challenging?

Clough
Feb 12, 2009, 11:51 PM
Originally Posted by Clough
I compose, play and improvise in that style also! There's also George Winston to add to the list of those who compose, play and especially him, improvise in that style.




Originally Posted by Wondergirl
I was going to mention him (my first experience with this type of music). I had called Carl Fischer, the big music store in the Chicago Loop, to ask if they had Winston's sheet music. They said if only they had a dollar for every time someone asked that question... and no, he does improv, and it's not written down. That was in the mid-80s so maybe there are fake books now??


I too, looked for the sheet music of George Winston pieces, about the same time that you did. Found that none existed, (at least not any that was for sale). So, what I did was that I just listened to it and wrote it down on manuscript paper, so that I could have it to play. Some of his stuff is easy enough though, that if you listen to it a number of times and get it in your head, it's not hard to figure it out without the sheet music.
Thanks!

Clough
Feb 12, 2009, 11:56 PM
I'm sorry for being so slow here! My wireless Internet connection got incredibly slow. So, I re-started computer and switched to dial-up.

Have you ever written poetry or the lyrics to a song, shank90?

Thanks!

shank90
Feb 12, 2009, 11:56 PM
It sure sounds like it would be annoying!

It's almost 1 here, and I have to go to bed soon.

What are your plans for Friday? Will you do something fun or exciting or daring or challenging?

Well me and my friends are going see Friday 13th but one of my friends invited my ex who dumped me for one of my other friends so I will be trying to hold my own

Wondergirl
Feb 12, 2009, 11:58 PM
I too, looked for the sheet music of George Winston pieces, about the same time that you did. Found that none existed, (at least not any that was for sale). So, what I did was that I just listened to it and wrote it down on manuscript paper, so that I could have it to play. Some of his stuff is easy enough though, that if you listen to it a number of times and get it in your head, it's not hard to figure it out without the sheet music.
Thanks!
I own every tune he recorded and have them all committed to memory. I think I will check Libraryland to see if there are any fake books.

I've been checking all over Internet for Yiruma, the composer of shank's piece, the link he posted. Yiruma has his own web site, is on YouTube with various pieces, is in Wikipedia. I'd never heard of him until tonight. I'll have to get out more...

shank90
Feb 13, 2009, 12:00 AM
I'm sorry for being so slow here! My wireless Internet connection got incredibly slow. So, I re-started computer and switched to dial-up.

Have you ever written poetry or the lyrics to a song, shank90?

Thanks!

I have wrote one poem and it was kind of goofy

shank90
Feb 13, 2009, 12:03 AM
It sure sounds like it would be annoying!

It's almost 1 here, and I have to go to bed soon.

What are your plans for Friday? Will you do something fun or exciting or daring or challenging?

I am also going to give a girl a stuffed dog for valentines but other than that it's the same as yesterday

Wondergirl
Feb 13, 2009, 12:03 AM
well me and my friends are going see friday 13th but one of my friends invited my ex who dumped me for one of my other friends so i will be trying to hold my own
I know you'll do fine. Just think of us here and smile. (She doesn't have any idea what she gave up!)

Clough
Feb 13, 2009, 12:06 AM
What I'm trying to do here is to give you an opportunity to express yourself, so that you can feel better about yourself and be potentially more attractive to women because of the way that you feel about yourself and also what you can do.

Are you interested in trying something that would enable you to do that?

Thanks!

Wondergirl
Feb 13, 2009, 12:06 AM
i am also going to give a girl a stuffed dog for valentines but other than that its the same as yesterday
That sounds cute! She'll be pleased!

Don't keep Clough up too late. He's in my time zone.

shank90
Feb 13, 2009, 12:15 AM
I know you'll do fine. Just think of us here and smile. (She doesn't have any idea what she gave up!)

Wow thanks!

shank90
Feb 13, 2009, 12:18 AM
What I'm trying to do here is to give you an opportunity to express yourself, so that you can feel better about yourself and be potentially more attractive to women because of the way that you feel about yourself and also what you can do.

Are you interested in trying something that would enable you to do that?

Thanks!

Yea I'm trying to express myself more but the tried and true way for me is to go on the soccer field and just let loose that is the one sport that I was good at and it really is my passion

shank90
Feb 13, 2009, 12:20 AM
That sounds cute! She'll be pleased!

Don't keep Clough up too late. He's in my time zone.

Yea sorry I really need to sleep
I think we are all in the same time zone

Clough
Feb 13, 2009, 12:26 AM
yea im trying to express myself more but the tried and true way for me is to go on the soccer field and just let loose that is the one sport that i was good at and it really is my passion

I wasn't talking about sports, but thanks for letting us know what your passion is.

I was wondering if you would like to write a song that's like the music of "River Flows in You" that you could play and to which you could also write the words. I'm giving you a chance to learn how to compose a song - for you, or for you to give to anyone, for that matter.

Thanks!

shank90
Feb 13, 2009, 12:30 AM
I wasn't talking about sports, but thanks for letting us know what your passion is.

I was wondering if you would like to write a song that's like the music of "River Flows in You" that you could play and to which you could also right words. I'm giving you a chance to learn how to compose a song - for you, or for you to give to anyone, for that matter.

Thanks!

Umm I really appreciate that but I really don't think I should take on any more projects with school and work and all kinds of crap but thanks for the offer

Clough
Feb 13, 2009, 12:43 AM
It's nothing really hard or major and certainly wouldn't involve anymore than the time that you're already spending on this site, but that's okay...

Might have been a way to see the possibilities that there could be...

It was an opportunity for you...

I just thought that I would try...

In addition to the above, it would have been free and easy help for you!

Anyway, thanks for mentioning the piano piece that you're working on, "River Flows in You". Just hearing it really made my evening!

Researching about it was an opportunity of which I took advantage of to do in order to help you...

Again, it was an opportunity...

When opportunities come for good things that might help us, if possible, it's best to take advantage of them because we never know when similar opportunities might ever come our way again.

If you had not mentioned the piece, then it's likely that I would never have found out about it, and for that, I thank you!

I wish and hope only the best for you!

Thanks!

BabyDoll22
Feb 13, 2009, 10:17 AM
thanks that was nice im just still wondering if that one person is out there ( or as Wondergirl would say any froggetts )

Don't worry shank09 there is someone for all of us so you will find someone you seem sweet so don't give up someone will come along when you least expect it :p question do you have any close friends

shank90
Feb 13, 2009, 05:13 PM
Don't worry shank09 their is someone for all of us so you will find someone you seem sweet so don't give up someone will come along when you least expect it :p question do you have any close friends

Yes my brother from another mother ha ha no he's not really my brother but he has been there for me since we were 7

shank90
Feb 13, 2009, 05:16 PM
It's nothing really hard or major and certainly wouldn't involve anymore than the time that you're already spending on this site, but that's okay...

Might have been a way to see the possibilities that there could be...

It was an opportunity for you...

I just thought that I would try...

In addition to the above, it would have been free and easy help for you!

Anyway, thanks for mentioning the piano piece that you're working on, "River Flows in You". Just hearing it really made my evening!

Researching about it was an opportunity of which I took advantage of to do in order to help you...

Again, it was an opportunity...

When opportunities come for good things that might help us, if possible, it's best to take advantage of them because we never know when similar opportunities might ever come our way again.

If you had not mentioned the piece, then it's likely that I would never have found out about it, and for that, I thank you!

I wish and hope only the best for you!

Thanks!

Thank you a lot you have put me in a more stable frame of mind and I am feeling a lot better I can't really tell you what I mean its really hard to sum it up all I can seem to say is thanks a million

BabyDoll22
Mar 6, 2009, 08:52 AM
Am glad your feeling better