This is a long and confusing story so here we go just to day I found out that 1 of my best friends had sex wit my ex girlfriend when I was wit her about 6 months ago this hurt me and his ex girlfriend. As me and his ex girlfriend are going true the same thing we spent all say talking and we really clicked. My so called friend was just sorting things out wit his ex who I spent today with but she told him where to go when this came out he says he really loves her I was also after sorting out a lot of stuff with my ex today but this just satared all the trouble again. I want to know would my friends ex and I be just as bad as them if we got into a relationship there is just something about this girl we really really clicked today I have never got feelings this strong so fast about anyone else in my life and I have no douth she feels the same because she has as good as said it if you know what I mean? I just want to know would we be wrong to give this a shot? :confused:

Smurf,

This is a confusing story - why would one of your best friends sleep with your ex girlfriend? I swear exes are no-no's...

Anyway, what you need to ask yourself is, are you willing to not have such a good relationship with your best friend and possible your ex? If you are OK with that, then give it a shot.. You are single, your best friend slept with your ex, it hurt you and his ex, and now you and his ex have a connection.

I don't think the question you should be asking is whether you would be as bad as them. Just the fact that you are asking this shows that you do care for their feelings - not what we could say for them after they hurt you... So what I would say is go for whatever you want, don't rush into things because that won't help but if you like this girl and you both find comfort in each other.

But to answer your question, yes you would be as bad regardless of who did what first.

But you can also take a different view depending on the type of person you are and say f*** it, they hurt me and did me wrong - I want to follow MY feelings (because if you don't you may regret it) and see where it goes.

Choice is yours mate