Okay, so we went to the cinema, and we shared our first kiss. It wasn't what I thought it'd be like at all. No fireworks, no tingly feeling, whatever. It felt like he was trying to swallow me, in fact, it always seems like that! He uses way too much tongue. I don't want to seem rude and tell him outright, but.. I don't know, is there a way I can sort of hint at him that he does? Please help!

Its not rude to tell him he you don't like the way he kisses. Just show him the right way.

Or perhaps he is just not the right guy for you also

Ah come on Chuck, don't write the guy off that easy just yet?


Tell him 'You know what I really like?'

Then show him.

If for no other reason than you'll be helping the guy out loads by the sound of it! :D

This is what you do:

Go up to him at a private moment. Say in a sexy tone of voice "You know I love to kiss you. But you know what would make them even better?" or words along those lines. Then grab him and kiss him exactly the way you want to be kissed and with great enthusiasm. Trust me. His mind will go something along the lines of "Wow! She's making the first move! This is so hot." And he will completely miss any insults to his kissing ability. :)

If you don't know how you want to be kissed (because of inexperience or a series of truly terrible boyfriends), then I would suggest going to your local library and reading some books on the subject. Although it is terribly unromantic, research actually helps.

This is what you do:

Go up to him at a private moment. Say in a sexy tone of voice "You know I love to kiss you. But you know what would make them even better?" or words along those lines. Then grab him and kiss him exactly the way you want to be kissed and with great enthusiasm. Trust me. His mind will go something along the lines of "Wow! She's making the first move! This is so hot." And he will completely miss any insults to his kissing ability. :)

If you don't know how you want to be kissed (because of inexperience or a series of truly terrible boyfriends), then I would suggest going to your local library and reading some books on the subject. Although it is terribly unromantic, research actually helps.

Hehe, okay thank you :)