What do you do when you feel hopeless, A Fool, for falling in love, Or a fool for falling in love with a girl you don't trust, U would think after 2 years you would grow trust, although I can't say with my own eyes, that I ever saw anything happen, Its just a gut feeling that is stuck with me, and I don't trust her, now she acts different, Wants to make a new myspace account, wants to go on a diet, wants to go to her friends, by herself, for a "girls night"

I mean , I don't have a boys night, or go on myspace, I just work, and no play!
Its not fair, And part of me doesn't want this person in my life, and the other shasty part of me, wants her, or maybe is just afraid to be alone again.

This sucks, it sucks big time,
I gave up a lot for this chick, friends, life, fun, activities, and now all my so called fun, is done with her, and she doesn't have a problem with me going out alone, I mean to me that says she doesn't give a shiest

I'm so sick of this, really sick of this!!
It gets me angry, and hurt, yet I can't shed a tear, but my heart really feels hurt, she says its no big deal, well it is to ME!! well there's nothing to worry about..

And I know what you guys are thinking, stop being paranoid, stop this , stop that, learn to do this and that, truth is I tried , and it doesn't change me. I can't change me,

I tried to be a good guy, I was ready to settle down and devote my whole life to her, no matter how fat she got after having the baby, that sounds harsh, but how else can I put it, I vowed to love her, and I have, and obviously, I take a lot of shast! To keep my promise, I know things never turn out the way you want them too.. but damn this is fawked up

I need help, spiritual, Or mental, I don't know

I think she is a liar, a cheater, or a girl who would cheat first chance she got, now I'm stuck, in this sh1th0l3

I'm 21, and still got time to go, what can I do man!

I'd love to have the big answer that will save you but I don't.


I don't know if this is what you want to hear, but you need to leave this lady if you really think you can't change the way you feel about her. And to be honest dude, I don't think you will.

If you can't leave for either your girl's or your prospective happiness... do it for your kid's.

A child, better than most adults, feels the tension and animosity in the air and are greatly affected by it.

I know how you feel. Disrespected.
She wants to have a myspace account, she wants to go out for a "girls night", while you are not doing these things. And I think every time you talk to her about these things that bother you, you finish having a big argument.

You seem focused in the relationship while she seems not so interested.now its time for her to be a mother, but she doesn't seem acting like one.

A kid is involved and this makes it difficult to find a proper solution.how old is she?does she take care of her child?
Firstly try to discuss things and make her known that she has some responsibilities. Calm yourself and discuss with her first.
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