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toyac123
Feb 4, 2009, 11:11 PM
Well I'm really in love with this dude we have talked flirted etc. I just wonna to know why we aren't talkning now and is he going to come back in my life?

Clough
Feb 4, 2009, 11:38 PM
Hi, toyac123!

That would be hard for us to figure out here without further information and feedback from you.

How was your communication and relationship going with him overall, please?

Thanks!

DR REVIS
Feb 5, 2009, 12:05 PM
Well my crystal ball tells me... he's just not that into you.

toyac123
Feb 7, 2009, 12:00 AM
Well we have been talking for a month and it was all good we flirted he'd do this really cute smile everyonce in a while but anyway there were times that I told m that I had trust issues and I would get upset n he would tell me that to stop comparing him n stuff then we'd make up n leave it at that then one day I texted him he wouldn't text me back so I got mad n went wild about that then he has a new friend n she's a whore but she's there for the sideline go stuff but I can do the same as her wats so good abut her now I really want him I textd him I was sorry n everything wrong I've done to to push m away but he didn't text a response back n now I'm sad n feeln blue I just want to know if I will ever talk to him again I just wish I could go back in time n go about things mother way.

roxypox
Feb 7, 2009, 01:48 AM
Punctuation would be nice! (sorry, had to say it!) Its hard to understand what your getting at...

Okay so out of the blue he stopped answering is that right? Did I understand you correctly?

And what about this girl you mention... his girlfriend? And she's a whore... as in she's loose or?

You should just let it go and move on! It might be that you caused a little too much drama, some people don't like that and move on... and seeing as he isn't answering your texts then its time to move on, hun!

Clough
Feb 7, 2009, 03:15 AM
I do agree that it's probably time to move on...

If you do by chance get together in person with him, I would suggest that you start fresh and not bring up things about others in the way that made him think that you were comparing him.

However, I'm wondering about all the texting going on as compared to there being physical and audible contact? If someone's really going to be serious about a relationship, then those two things for communicating need to be happening much more so than any sort of texting.

Are you able to call him to speak with him, toyac123?

Thanks!