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Lytishia_Glover
Feb 3, 2009, 11:20 PM
My boyfriend of 2 years told me he has been in love with this other girl back in middle school. After 6 1/2 months me and him split for the first time, when we split they hung out. Well then me and him got back together, He secretly broke up with me for her. He's said he loves me and He's fallen hard for me. I love him with all my heart and I don't want to loose him. To me the past is the past but they still talk to this day and it worries me. :confused:[F]What should I do?

My first time having sex, My cherry didn't pop. My boyfriend thinks that there was somebody before him and that I lyed to him and said that just to make him feel good. It wasn't a lie, he was my first. Is there a way to prove it to him?

Me and my fiance/boyfriend have been together 2 years on and off like 3 or 4 times. We are going pretty strong now with only a few bumps in the road. We have been talking about having a child. He seems really in to the whole situation and he talks about different names and all that but then again he kind of gives me the vibe he don't want to. Do you think he really wants a child or what?

When me and my boyfriend make out I turn him on in like a split second. After a few mintues he turns me on. We keep making out and messing around then if we just sit there calmly for 5 or 10 mintues I loose my turn on while he still has his. When we have sex he can keep me turned on but why is it that when were making out and foreplay he cant? Is it me? Is it something I can control?

When me and my boyfriend have sex I always last a few mintues longer. Is it normal for the girl to last longer? Or Is it something I'm doing wrong that causes him not to last?

DJ28
Feb 3, 2009, 11:31 PM
Maybe tell him how you feel about the situation and see where it goes. Really just be honest with him and let him now that it makes you feel uncomfortable. But really just sit him down and have a honest conversation about it, and just keep your cool about it all. Don't come on to him where he would feel like he has to get defensive.

Romefalls19
Feb 4, 2009, 07:03 AM
Explain how you feel about the situation and try to resolve the issue. If he cannot put your mind at it, then you have a decision to make.

talaniman
Feb 4, 2009, 07:34 AM
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So this b/f has his iron in other fires, as well as yours, and you think he is ready to be a father?

Come on, you better give reality some thought, and leave that fantasy alone, your too young for that!

albertben
Feb 4, 2009, 07:36 AM
You do love him,but stop thinking that he does,because you can't read his mind.but what I will advice you to do is to ask yourself this questions before you make him know about your feelings.
1.if he says he loves you,why does he still speak to that girl
2.are you OK with him speaking to her and you giving him the benefit of the doute that there is nothing happing
3.what conversations does he have with that girl that he can't have with you.
4.what's so special about that girl that he still talks with her
5.any thing you do,please do take time to consider situations,because matters of the heart should not be rushed.
6:):):);)

Fr_Chuck
Feb 4, 2009, 06:26 PM
I have merged many of the posts,

I think several things

1. poster is making a lot up, since so many of the stories don't seem to make sense together.

2. if not, they are far to young to be into this