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bittersweet15
Jan 27, 2009, 09:41 AM
Hi, I'm male and 15 years old. I had a girlfriend, and we've been dating for 6 months now. # days ago, she came to my house. My parents were downstairs and they were busy so they didn't notice that my girlfriend came to my house and snuck into my room.
Well, we were laying ourselves on my bed and we kissed each other. But then I started to ejaculate and the sperm was all over my hips. I wiped it off with my boxer and I fingered her. I wasn't so sure if my hand was clean or no, all I know is that my hands were dry and I didn't get too deep. And we decided to stop right after I was fingering her. And I didn't have sex with her. And it was my first...
The next day, she told me that she had a sore breasts and didn't know why. I started to surf on the net and found out that sore breasts might be a symptomps to pregnancy. So our worries began to start...
The next day, she had this photo session that took hours, and she felt really exhausted. She said that she never felt this way before. It seemed awkward because usually it takes days to make her feel exhausted. Again, I checked on the net and it was the second early symptoms that she might be pregnant.
The next day, which is today, she told me that a light-brown substance came out from her vagina. I wasn't so sure about what was going on. So I checked on the net, and it was the third symptoms, which is implantation bleeding.

I don't know what to do now, my parents and my friends will be furious if they found out about this one. So, if there's any chance that my girl might be pregnant? Or I'm just being paranoid?

If yes she is pregnant, what should I say to my parents and friends(because earlier today she said that she's confused between keeping the baby or do an abortion)? My parents had this military background, and they said I was their last hope, because my older brother was causing too much sadness for my family.

I WAS SCARED, WHAT Should I DO?

briana93
Jan 27, 2009, 11:06 AM
Well what ever you do don't get an abortion think it through and yes tell your parents explain everything cause at least you isn't have sex with her come straight out with it that will be the best choice trust me.

Justwantfair
Jan 27, 2009, 11:11 AM
Sounds to me like overactive guilty conscientious'.

First off don't overreact until you know something for sure. Second take this as a huge warning sign, you are entering territory that you are not prepared for apparently.

Don't be in a hurry to grow up, you will respect yourself later for waiting.

J_9
Jan 27, 2009, 11:12 AM
She's not pregnant. The symptoms of pregnancy do NOT begin the next day as it takes as long as 3 days for the sperm to travel up to the egg and another 3 days for the fertilized egg to travel down to the uterus.

Alty
Jan 27, 2009, 11:14 AM
The next day, she told me that she had a sore breasts and didn't know why
Sweetie, she would not be having pregnancy symptoms this early, it's not possible.

Sore breasts are also a symptom of pms, so is exhaustion.

The chances of her getting pregnant because your fingered her with ejaculate on your hand are very slim, very, very, slim. Yes, the chance is there, but I doubt that she's pregnant.

From now on, when you two are fooling around, wear a condom, just to be on the safe side. Okay?

tntdynamite
Jan 27, 2009, 11:28 AM
I agree with the others. She wouldn't be pregnant this early, or having signs. I agree with Altenweg, wear a condom next time. But just because you have protection doesn't mean you should do it. Be sure your mentally/emotionally ready. But it's your life. Oh, and another thing. Your parents have no reason to put that kind of pressure on you. Talk to them, it's not fair to you, or to your brother if he finds out that they've pretty much given up on him.

godsbabygirl267
Jan 27, 2009, 10:46 PM
I agree too. It takes days to actuall have a fertalized egg and a couple of weeks to begin experiencing pregnancy symptoms. The chances of her being pregnant, are very slim, but be careful and do not start something you won't be around to finish in 18 years.