Alrite my ex is like conusin me, she claims she likes me sort of and says she loves me still but when she's drunk or when I say something slightly annoyin she spazzes at me and hates me again then the next day she forgives me, wha does she want from me?

Apparently to confuse you and show you disrespect.

Let her stay an ex ,she is not thinking of your feelings and there is no reason to accept that,especially from an EX.

Do you really want to put up with that for the rest of your life? To have someone get mad then happy then mad that's annoying. And she can't deal with the person you are then its not going to work. It will only make you feel like you're the bad guy threw the whole thing