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claudie1987
Jan 23, 2009, 01:09 PM
I work in a mental health institution for people with mild mental health issues. When I first started I was asked to co work a 28 year old male client so I excepted. He seemed this really quiet depressed person any way after month of me co working him he then became this really happy person, he would go out more and stuff like that I had a really good working friendship with him. I then started to notice him getting very jealous when other males were around me and then he would start to watch everything I was doing, he then beacme very angry with me and the other males that were around me. I was moved of him as a co worker and I was put down stairs away from him. I don't see a much of him, but when I do his attention is focused on me and he still gets jealous. I would have thought he would have forgotten about me by now and moved on. What do you people think? Will he get worse or change? I think he has fantasys about me to.

ja77
Jan 23, 2009, 02:04 PM
I feel you need to report this action to the people you work for.

Stay clear of this person because it does not sound like it would be good news.

Choux
Jan 23, 2009, 02:13 PM
He fell in love with you and is jealous... that is normal in this situation. Therapists deal with this all the time. Are you able to talk to him about it?

If you find this too unpleasant, get another job.