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justjayde
Jan 19, 2009, 04:26 AM
Hi my names alex.

Ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half now and we have sex regularyly.

His penis is average size. 6inch. So when we sleep together, why don't I find it painful or pleasurable. Ive slept with other people veofre and have found this.

It really bugs me as my friends always mention how they have amazing sex. But mine isn't. I feel left out. And want to enjoy sex with my boyfriend, instead of faking it.

Fr_Chuck
Jan 19, 2009, 04:37 AM
First how old are you, Are you really ready to be having sex, just because "everyone" is doing it, is not the reason to do it.

Assuming he is like most teen boys, and your friends are like most teen girls, most lie about 1/2 or more of their sexua incounters, and the rest lie about how good it is most of the time.

But it has to do with foreplay and being relaxed.

Alty
Jan 19, 2009, 09:34 AM
The OP is 16.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/unpainful-pleasurable-sex-305646.html

nike 1
Jan 19, 2009, 10:01 AM
Your body, mind, and maturity just hasn't developed yet. This is not the time in your life to be worrying about sex. You have a lot of growing to do. You are just not built for sexual activities yet.

411Help
Jan 19, 2009, 10:39 AM
You're only sixteen years old. You shouldn't be having sex.

Are you two ready for the emotional turmoil that comes with it?
Are you two ready to have a child?

Please, please, and PLEASE stop having sex.