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bk87
Jan 18, 2009, 05:31 PM
So I've never really asked a question on something like this before, but after my recent breakup I feel like I need to get outside advice..
So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years.. and I know we both love each other.. we talked about getting married before.. living together.. and he's even bought me a diamond promis ring.. and on top of that a tattoo of my name.. but for the last year all we've been going is argueing.. argueing over stupid things.. and constantly breaking up and getting back.. and now he broke up with me again after a fight yesterday over trust issues.. I don't know what to do.. I'm misserable and tires of the breakup.. I really love him.. but I don't know why its like this..

bk87
Jan 18, 2009, 06:02 PM
And on top of that I was too upset I just changed my phone number.. what am I doing..

nike 1
Jan 18, 2009, 06:05 PM
It might be a good idea if the two of you take some time apart. Agree on a break for a few weeks, and spend that time reflecting on the relationship. Then after some time begin to talk about the problems that led to the breakup by phone or E-mailing. I would highly suggest E-mailing, it really helps keep things in perspective without hearing the other persons frustration on the phone. Another advantage of that is you can completely ask and answer questions without being interupted by the other. Once the two of you make some mutual headway with each other, start going on dates with each other without any promises to see if you both have straightened things out. Best wishes!

talaniman
Jan 20, 2009, 10:58 AM
What you need is a break from him so the emotional dust settle and you get a clear perspective without his influence.

When communications break down, its usually a sign of the end. Leave him alone, and see what happens. No contact, no sex!