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CFZD
Jan 17, 2009, 02:47 PM
So, I met this gentleman last year at a training course that I attended. He was one of the classmates from another region office. We talked and got to know each other a little bit and he continued contacting me after the meeting, just sending messages once a week, he spoke very professional.

Last week, he came to our office to help with a training session as an Instructor. During his visiting, he took my out every night, dinner, movies, games, ice cream, coffees, dancing, etc.

He is a shy, honest man, but he opened up a lot to me, he spoke to me his past, his pain and even when he wants to get married, etc.

At the end of each date, he just hugged me, and the last day, at the airport, I said to him that I will miss him, he said he will miss me too.

Now I don't know if he likes me or only treats me as a friend. How can I tell? One more thing is that he doesn't live in the US, and he will probably never come here for business trips.

Please advise!

P.S. I am 22 he is 28.

NItEMArE129
Jan 17, 2009, 08:50 PM
You already know that he's shy. You already know that he opened up to you. You already know that he admits that he will miss you. What else does he need to do, wear a sign?

He likes you! Don't doubt it! But be careful about distance. Think about if this is really what you want, and then decide. There's not much else to do.

CFZD
Jan 23, 2009, 02:23 PM
He is working on move to the US, but the office he is moving to is about 8 hours away.

He also told me that his past relationship makes me a cautious person... what does that mean? Does he mean that he is not ready for another relationship, he's been single for 5 years...