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Bluestir54
Jan 14, 2009, 06:31 AM
Me and this girl were really good friends, I mean we told each other everything. Until her boyfriend, who moved to Maryland, calls her up and asks her if she wants to get back together, have a long distance relationship. She said yes, and that was basically the thing that shut me out. NExt thing I know she is totally ignoring me. She won't talk to me. She won't hang with me, and she won't text me. Now I find out... that I really like her. But I can't ask her out because she is going out with him. Should I ask her out?

kctiger
Jan 14, 2009, 06:32 AM
Nope. You DO NOT ask her out. She is taken now, and obviously used you as an emotional crutch while her boyfriend was broken up with her... now that he is back in the picture, you are gone. Sorry man, it is shallow and hurtful, I know, but best to avoid this drama.

zeeniee
Jan 14, 2009, 07:21 AM
I agree with kcitger and think you should start focusing on YOU and start doing things for YOU and keep yourself happy.

I would leave the girl alone, as her heart is with another person- its best this way. Even if she changes her mind- your best to keep away and this way avoid a rebound situation.

Romefalls19
Jan 14, 2009, 08:19 AM
Nope, she made a choice to be with her ex, now respect that choice as you wouldn't want a guy to do that to you if tables were turned. Find a new gal to put your attention too

HistorianChick
Jan 14, 2009, 08:46 AM
Girls that are taken are not available. Period.

She has committed to trying a long distance relationship with her ex. She is not available.

talaniman
Jan 14, 2009, 10:57 AM
Take the hint from her, as she has someone to take her out.

Your question should be why are you so interested in going out with someone who dumped you for another and doesn't want anything to do with you?

Leave it alone.