Hi, at my school there is a guy whom I've never really paid much attention to, except when I stop to talk to him when he's around my friends. One day I stopped by to pick up my friend from a cooking course she was taking, and I found the same guy in her class. She said she was good friends with him, and they seemed pretty close as they were flirting lightly and joking around.
In order not to feel so left out, I joined them, and somehow managed to touch him everywhere, both intentionally and unintentionally. I ran my fingers through his hair, in a joking way, and he didn't seem bothered at all by it as he is naturally shy and quiet.
However, after a few days of talking to him online, it seemed as if he changed entirely. He began asking me bolder questions, private questions regarding my sexuality, and he kept asking me about the sizes and shapes of my body parts which shocked me.
A few days later, we had casual phone and cyber sex, and as stupid and silly as it sounds I feel like I am developing a crush on him. Only problem is, ever since I had cyber sex with him he hasn't spoken to me. He will sign on MSN, but won't say a word to me.
Why is he being like this? Did we move too fast? Or do most guys ignore girls after sex? I am so confused. Help please.

Oh I know how you feel same thing happened to me.Like a while ago there was this guy who worked at the movie theater he would say things to me that I couldn't even imagine and he added me on MSN. But we didn't have cyber sex but he would talk dirty, some how the word got around our small little town and he stopped talking I tried talking to him but NO I still have feelings for him but I've moved on the best thing for you is just move on there will be better WAY better guys out there!!

Sounds like he only needed you to get off

sounds like he only needed you to get off

Now that I think of it he seemed really hesitant to talk to me before all this happened. Man I feel stupid. :mad:

Your not stupid, just find a way to move on you can do better find someone who shows how much they want to be with you cause anyone else is a waste of time

your not stupid, just find a way to move on you can do better find someone who shows how much they want to be with you cause anyone else is a waste of time

Yeah, that's 100% true. I'm hurt now, but I'll eventually move on. Thanks for the advice, it helped :)

You didn't have sex, but he probably thinks you act this way with all the guys, so has lost interest.

Cyber sex???!?! OMIGOSH!!