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swetha2010
Jan 11, 2009, 05:44 AM
Am engneering student.. In my prefinal year I met him. He is also my classmet but different stream.. even ,first I came to know him in orkut.. then we talked in phone.. I liked him as a friend .we used to talked in whole night... he talked a lot... at that time he loved one girl.even I know that but he said he loves me lot and that love is just unmatured love.. I beleved him we proposed each other. So I told to my parents .my mother is professor and my dad is an advocate... they called him an they also accept my love. I talked to their parent they also accept me.. everythin was gone all right bt now on dec 2008 he behave like som strange.. he started avoiding me . He talked very badly and he said he don't love me.he said he is going to give life to some girl.. he cheated me an my parents too... I don't know how am going tobe without him... I really love him a lot... but he didn't call me ,message me... till now... he didn't love me.. he really cheated me.. I am really confused.. I don't know why he cheats me.. now I came to know from my friends that he already loved 5 girls.. icant able to forget him.. but he did.. we came to see every day in colege really very hard to me... but he is very normal and he is haapy to... am the one who is damn suffering... because of me my parents also suffering.. help me frns to come out this... I can't able to concentrate on any thing...

Jane Smit
Jan 11, 2009, 05:53 AM
My heart if breaking for you, pray for him and your family, and for yourself. I read today percentage wise, with today's way of life because of the way life is going with are economy, cheating, gambling, drinking, and divorce is on the rise. Way more than usual. I hate to say it but with in many family's I know, everyone is dealing with what you are. Don't blame yourself, it just is what it is, you can't change him, better to find out now than later after marriage.

faree1238
Jan 11, 2009, 09:43 AM
How can I learn in english

faree1238
Jan 11, 2009, 09:45 AM
Who are you?

THEpurplepeanut
Jan 11, 2009, 06:32 PM
Sorry can't understand some of your writing, it's throwing me off, no offense ;)

Alty
Jan 15, 2009, 06:19 PM
Faree, this isn't a chat room, it doesn't work the same way. We volunteer here, sometimes it takes us a while to answer a question, it depends on who's online and who sees your question.

Also, we won't disclose who we are, that's why we have usernames, so that we can remain anonymous.

As for learning English, there are tons of courses that you can take, either in person or online.

Good luck.

smokedetector
Jan 15, 2009, 06:42 PM
The best advice I can give you is that time heals all wounds. I have thought my life was over more than once, but every day you live without him is a day further away from him. There is also a song I heard recently that says something to the effect of don't waste time looking over your shoulder because those loves from the past aren't going to get any closer. I wish this problem was easy to solve, but the fact is that things like this never make sense, so there will never be a right answer. Good luck in the coming days, and remember that every story has a happy ending. If you're not happy, it's not the end.