I don't want to be soft, but everything is really touch recently. I and my girl have an almost 8 months relationship. Frankly to say, we went through the good and bad time together with no problem. One thing to say, I is NOT accepted by her family. It is not that I am a ruined boy; I am a student with 3.8 GPA under my belt and my family is running a beauty salon. However, her family still don't accept me. It hurts us a lots, but we were still happy. We were in love and promised we will go through both hard and good time together. But everything is messed up recently. After fall semester, we do not meet each other likes 1 month cause the winter break. 2 first weeks, she kept calling me whenever she had spare time, and said she miss and love me, and always remembered to kiss my good night. 2 weeks later, everything is changed. She doesn't say she miss me and love me anymore, only answer me if I ask. And she doesn't kiss me good night after talking on the phone. And she is very easy to get mad with me for any reason. I know she is changing. I ask her please tell me what's going on? She said everything is OK, and she said she needs some time to think about what she really wants, about our relationship? I am not a dumb. I know something's terrible is going on. But I hope she can tell me directly. Tomorrow is her birthday. We still hang out, but she does not care about spending some private time with me, she wants to go to the club with her friends. My romantic plan with balloon and candle is ruined.
I think her family did something with her, and affected to her point of view. She changes 180 degrees and gives me no chance to do anything while we are apart. I did give her everything I could, even my heart. Now she wants a break? That's cool with me. In the past, when I was playing Crisis or Fallout 3, I begged her for a break. Now absolutely she can ask for the same thing. But:
What she really wants to say?
And what should I do now? New semester is coming next week. And I have to meet her in 2 classes.

Maybe her feelings have changed and its not her family, but the handwriting is on the wall.


She said she needs some time to think about what she really wants, about our relationship? I am not a dumb

No more small talk, back away.

All you can do is do what she asks. Because you can't change her views or how she's feeling right now. Give her time and you will have time to think if she is what you really want too.

Give her exactly what she wants.

Disappear, forever.