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cunfuzed
Jan 4, 2009, 10:45 AM
Doesn't the holiday visitation usually trump the regular visitation even if the order doesn't specifically say so.

Example

Wed 31 is ncp's standard visit from 6-8pm
Wed 31 is also NYE and also the beginning of cps visitation from 6-8pm.

Wouldn't that mean that cp keeps child at 6 and ncp does not get that standard visit for that day since the holiday visit starts at 6?

cdad
Jan 4, 2009, 02:52 PM
Doesnt the holiday visitation usually trump the regular visitation even if the order doesnt specificaly say so.

Example

Wed 31 is ncp's standard visit from 6-8pm
Wed 31 is also NYE and also the beginning of cps visitation from 6-8pm.

Wouldnt that mean that cp keeps child at 6 and ncp does not get that standard visit for that day since the holiday visit starts at 6?.

That's the way it usually works. A "holiday" is a special time set aside during the calendar year. Birthdays also can fall under that category. The standard schedule is the norm and the holiday / birthday schedule is the exception. So if a conflict occurs the then the holiday / birthday takes precidence.

cunfuzed
Jan 5, 2009, 10:43 AM
Well I guess I should be expecting him to file contempt as he does for every little thing before thinking about it. I got a call from a sherriff but I didn't check the message until Sunday. Apparently he didn't know my visitation for NYE trumped his and called police

If he files contempt, is it worth getting a lawyer?

cdad
Jan 5, 2009, 01:15 PM
If he does file and you can afford it Id say get a lawyer and in your response ask for him to pay if he were to lose. That way he can learn a lesson and it might provide for relief later.

msir
Jan 5, 2009, 01:35 PM
Is it possible that it was his holiday.

cdad
Jan 5, 2009, 04:05 PM
is it possible that it was his holiday.

Wed 31 is ncp's standard visit from 6-8pm
Wed 31 is also NYE and also the beginning of cps visitation from 6-8pm.


If it were to occur this way as the example the custodial parent is the one " granted " the holiday visitation.

The non-custodial parent would have to wait their turn till next standard visitation cycle.

cunfuzed
Jan 6, 2009, 10:44 AM
Thanks cali. That's how I am going to write it to the court to make it a simple explanation in case he files for contempt