Have been chatting with a guy online for about four months now, we haven't actually met, well we were scheduled to meet, but I had to cancel due to other plans, and we were getting on great, until I saw a comment on his stupid bebo page from his friend saying 'after leaving the house after sleeping with a stranger... I'm not a slag I promise' I didn't say anything for a few weeks, meaning I confronted him after an especially bad day at work on msn, so bad that he couldnt' speak to me for nearly two weeks, and that I hurt his feelings, I went helll for leather and laid into him that evening, I had some issues, which I felt like I've cleared up within my own thoughts, in fact I was a complete ing nightmare if anything :( since that I have apologised and gave him space, and he said it's all OK, and we've been chatting all right up until the last week or so, I can't really get onto the net as I live in a remote area and I'm now out and about at the moment, and when I do get on he is not on msn, as we used to chat loads, and he did call me more than he used to, I gave him my new house number and just said hope to hear from you, and he hasn't called me over the holidays, so I called him once, to try and get some spark back, he has told me all kinds of stuff in the past and I've shared so much stuff with him, we seem to hit it off really well, he does reply to my texts, but we hardly ever speak, I lead a pretty boring life, live in the highlands, got home troubles, and don't have any friends as I've recently moved to highlands as I lost my job down in England (that's another story), I want to get out and make friends just don't know how to without any car or much money. Anyway I don't hound this guy, I try and keep it cool even after everything I've asked him if he can still meet but he seems to be kind of interested but not really as much as before, I know he has every right to be weary after my behaviour.

What do I do? I'm not thinking 'oh my god he doesn't like me anymore' I'm thinking more, I know I shouldn't of blown up in his face and be nasty to him, I know I've got issues from my past with guys (and I've spoken to him about this and he seems to understand) and have thought about them and know that I can't tar every man with the same brush, just need to know how to get things back on track, I asked him if he was still single at christmas, as I didn't want to seem like I was being 'freaky' and he just wanted me to call him so I did, but he just doesn't seem that much into me no more, and I aren't they kind of lady to push things, I feel real frustrated, as I know he's a decent lad, and I was in the wrong, any tips? Thanks in advance people.

You are concerned how you treat him. Look more at how he treats you. Maybe you were very well justified at laying your feelings on the line with him. I don't know but if he isn't communicating as much it most likely is time to move on. Maybe it was for the best.