View Full Version : Finding Roumer-er
thampoo
Jan 2, 2009, 12:49 AM
How can I find a person (source) who is spreading roumer about me. People talk at my back and could not cooperate or give any respect and support to me. I feel very lonely and friends are no more friends as they feel I'm a bad character person
Should I ask people directly what they think about me and who told them so
rockerchick_682
Jan 2, 2009, 01:14 AM
The only solution to a rumor is to ignore them. No one will want to gossip about you if it doesn't bother you.
ITstudent2006
Jan 2, 2009, 01:33 AM
Also if you're previous friends are no longer your friends because they think you're a bad character then ask yourself "I'm I a bad character/influence?"
Do you do things that others disapprove of?
Do you drink a lot?
Smoke A lot?
Swear a lot?
Beat your spouse etc... the list could go on forever but you get my point, is there a reason your friends are no longet your friends?
If not the rockerchick is right, the best way to handle a rumor is a deaf ear. The person starting these rumors won't stop just because you don't lik it they'll probably get more fired up!