Hi my question is :my ex and I split up in January 08 and I never saw him for a couple of months.then I started seeing him around because he goes to same club as I do every week:S so we just exchanged few glances and now when him and his mates are there they stare at me and my mates table and they particularly look over when I'm wearing something nice like a dress or skirt and some things I see when I look over to look t them I find them already looking over at me or sometimes when I look over his mates nudge him as if to say that am looking at him I know it's a long question but I really do need help its driving me nuts :S

Why did you break up?

This is normal. If you gave us more information we'd be more of help.

How long were you together? Why is it bothering you so much? Does it look like his mates are trying to cause trouble between you and your ex? A little more info please.

Don't get carried away with flirting with an ex, and his buddies.