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THEpurplepeanut
Dec 15, 2008, 07:41 PM
Well that boy I called said he would go out with me next year (yeah right) I called about two weeks ago and I'm still not over him, and I found out he's moving. I know there are plenty of fish out in the sea but he is one fish that I don't want to throw back yet, I don't know why but I just really like him. There's this other boy at school who claims he really likes me but I kind of like him but then again I still think about that other guy and well I don't really like him that much, but I like him. Confusing huh? The guy that's trying to ask me out is kind of ugly (I know, don't judge a book by it's cover) but he's a nice guy. I just feel like crying because I don't know what to do. That other guy broke my heart :( but I still like him for some reason, well because we have known each other for almost three years and we are still friends but it's torture!! He says he still likes me but I know that is a lie because he is trying to make me feel better. I know I shouldn't let it get to me, but I feel depressed, I really liked him and I don't want to hurt this other guy's feelings. Got any advice from those of you who have "been there done that"? :confused: :(

xxariesxx
Dec 15, 2008, 08:15 PM
I think you need to let the guy who's moving away go. Yes you care about him greatly, but it is for the best to move on for both of your sakes. As for this other guy you are not quite interested in, leave him alone then! There is no reason that you HAVE to be with anyone. Why not just be a responsible girl and focus on yourself and friends?

THEpurplepeanut
Jan 15, 2009, 06:14 PM
I think you need to let the guy who's moving away go. Yes you care about him greatly, but it is for the best to move on for both of your sakes. As for this other guy you are not quite interested in, leave him alone then! There is no reason that you HAVE to be with anyone. Why not just be a responsible girl and focus on yourself and friends?

Thanks! It really helped and I think I finally got over him and that other guy and I, we are just friends, so life is good :) I kind of like being single ;)

Lama22
Mar 7, 2009, 05:19 PM
Umm don't ever hesitate because one moment of hesitation can cause u a lifetime of regrets. Think about what u want but then think about what's best! You will make the right decision