Hey everyone!! I liked the previous post so much I decided to post one for men!!

So...

What are the mistakes men make in relationship and ways to correct them in order to have a healthy, steady and lasting relationship

They could turn off the sports once in a while. I have to deal with sports all year long. Just when one is over, another one begins. Come on! Football, baseball, nascar, baskegball, when does it end? I can deal with football and even some basketbal games but that's it. Even some boxing but nothing else.

I know exactly what you mean!! My ex was obsessed with Hockey and I hated it.. and the season was 9 months long!! It was always on the TV!!

Marrying women who don't like sports 24/7 like they do... ;)

The only problem I had with some guys in the past was that some had problems expressing themselves. I used to wish they could just express their feeling and let it all out until I met my fiancé. He has no problems expressing his feelings and share everything with me. I know so much about his life to where I could right his own autobiography.

The problems I have with guys is they play word games and have double standards. Then when you are upset with them they play dumb and are in denial and don't understand why you are upset that they don't get it... well, you asked.

What about when it's time to buy a gift and they ask "what do you want"? When it's gift giving time I never ask that because I already know what I am getting him. Is it that hard to pick out a gift? I can give clues but I prefer that he pick something out and surprise me instead of me telling you what to get.

They could turn off the sports once in a while. I have to deal with sports all year long. Just when one is over, another one begins. Come on! Football, baseball, nascar, baskegball, when does it end?? I can deal with football and even some basketbal games but that's it. Even some boxing but nothing else.

I know what you mean. I tried sitting through a baseball game and it was so boring. Then it went all the way to the 11th inning. I was like "come on". Everyday a game is on and when it isn't it on game center, or some other show on ESPN.

I hate the double standards as well.

They complain and complain about their wives, but then go home and beg for sex.. they just aren't happy either way.. sometimes I just want to give up on dating all together and just get a dog

Marrying women who don't like sports 24/7 like they do... ;)

That was funny! Lol

I'll say the same thing I said on the other post. Men and women are wired different. Women have to analyze everything and men don't. Being sensitive to a man is not fluffing the sheets when he cuts one in bed.
If people wanted to really understand the differences between the sexes and why we(men) are like we are they should sign up for one of Mark Gunger's seminars. He will keep you laughing for 12 straight hours and at then end of the time you will have a better understanding of why.
Here is a sample;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuMZ73mT5zM&feature=related

Mistake: Not wanting to pull over to ask for directions when we're lost but is willing to drive around in circles until they figure it out.

That's why I am glad that the gps was invented because you can't leave home without it.

You can listen... I mean really listen to what she has to say.

Hey everyone!!! I liked the previous post so much I decided to post one for men!!!


Are you saying there is a thread about mistakes women make? I've looked all the way back to Aug of 2007 and can't find anything similar. Can somebody direct me to it?

They got selfish by the time.. this will damage the woman and her heart! But by that time they would have forgot that only because of their woman they became a better person and only bcoz of her laughter and smile and cute things about her they could actually have a real innocent smile too! I think they like to mess their life by their own hands!

If you and your male partner both work full time, who does his laundry? Being a jerk has little to do with the fact that men and women are wired differently. Liking sports doesn't make a guy bad. Jerks are selfish. Selfish men who insist that home is their castle forget that the king-slave relationship can be ended with divorce.

Hi I assume you all are talking about mistake men make in an relationship right? I would like to add my experience here. I failed in a relationship recently.

The mistake was:

I am too clingy , I feel like spending most of my time with her.
I always wanted to solve her problem when she is stress.
I am too dead honest with her that I always share how I feel to her.
I never go out alone with any girls because I am afraid that she might be jealous.
Canceling my plans for her.
Putting her as my first priority.