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D29
Dec 10, 2008, 02:38 AM
I have loved my boyfriend for 3years I have been there when I should have walk out on him I was his backbone anything he needed wanted I was there because I wanted to be there it has definitely been a long 3yrs when I meant him he was average car job believe me I had to upgrade him to a better car which he brought and job which he found a year ago he lost his job and I took care of jim for 1 year his bills plus mine he is doing great now you would have thought he had no hellp at all or at least that is how he is carrying it now he has a new car and job and basically forgot about me and my daughter he has been taking care of her since she was 2 and yes I still love him so much and today he told me to stop calling he has moved on and then proceeded to say I should have stucrk out with him :confused::(

ZoeMarie
Dec 10, 2008, 06:42 AM
As much as it hurts, it sounds like he's moved on and it's too late to do anything about it. It's best to leave him alone. How long has it been since you broke up?

kctiger
Dec 10, 2008, 07:04 AM
I say you move on, as he has. He didn't forget about you, however the relationship ended and he is in a whole new life right now. I know it sucks for you, as you seem to still love him. This is life. Most things come to an end... check that, ALL things come to an end. You will be fine. You and your beautiful daughter are going to eventually live a much happier life. You have something so much better to live for than him... good luck to you!

redwee74
Dec 10, 2008, 07:10 AM
You need to move on. Do not call or make any contact with him. He has moved on and now you must. Your daughter and you will live through this. The point is focus on you and your child and live life, enjoy things you did before or find new things to experience. I know this sounds like a broken record but it does work just not as fast as you would hope. It will take time, and it sucks bad but each day will be a little better, and eventually it will be fine that he left, that I can guarantee. Just hang in there and enjoy yourself and your child. Good Luck and God Bless.

talaniman
Dec 10, 2008, 09:29 AM
You should be glad the ungrateful son of a gun is not leeching off you any more. Celebrate as you are moving on.