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ajrb913
Dec 9, 2008, 09:58 AM
My daughter is 5 my husband has been her dad since she could talk. She knows no other dad and we want him to adopt. There is no father on the birth cirtificate. I don't know where he is I haven't seen him since she was 8 months. No child support. Nothing his family won't even talk to me... not that I care. But how difficult will it be w/o him to sign the papers? Or do I even need him?

JudyKayTee
Dec 9, 2008, 10:02 AM
My daughter is 5 my husband has been her dad since she could talk. she knows no other dad and we want him to adopt. there is no father on the birth cirtificate. i dont know where he is i havent seen him since she was 8 months. no child support. nothing his family wont even talk to me...not that i care. but how difficult will it be w/o him to sign the papers? or do i even need him?



Was there ever DNA testing? A support order? The State is also important.

If he has been recognized as the Father you may very well be asked about him and then have to seek his permission - which apears to be the case if his family knows of the child.

You can't just remove his rights, whether he visits and/or supports or not.

ajrb913
Dec 9, 2008, 09:31 PM
No dna no support order. Nothing at all... and I live in Alabama.

Fr_Chuck
Dec 9, 2008, 10:00 PM
It is just harder and costs more if you can not get the bio dad and have him sign, There will be required search methods the court will require.