dancer12
Dec 8, 2008, 01:35 PM
My boyfriend of two years broke up with a week ago and I'm still confused as to why it happened.
In the beginning we were in an argument (very minor) and he said he thought he didn't make me happy anymore. Then he started to cry and whenever I asked him what was wrong he said "I don't know." Then finally I asked "Is this it then?" not really meaning it and he said yes. I was so shocked. It was so unexpected. We rarely fight and usually work things out.
The next day I went to see him because I thought I deserved an answer and he that's when he said that he felt like he didn't love me anymore. I was so confused because there were no warning signs. Even the nigh of the break I said I love and he replied.
My boyfriend and I have been through so many things together (I was really sick last year) and we even lived together last year. This year we decided that we would stay we our roommates instead because we both liked them a lot. (Neither of us cared for our roommates last year.) We were still seeing each other a lot (at least 3 times a week) and there was no indication that anything was wrong.
I just don't understand it.
Is it really that he doesn't love me or could there be something else and is there any way we could have worked this out?
In the beginning we were in an argument (very minor) and he said he thought he didn't make me happy anymore. Then he started to cry and whenever I asked him what was wrong he said "I don't know." Then finally I asked "Is this it then?" not really meaning it and he said yes. I was so shocked. It was so unexpected. We rarely fight and usually work things out.
The next day I went to see him because I thought I deserved an answer and he that's when he said that he felt like he didn't love me anymore. I was so confused because there were no warning signs. Even the nigh of the break I said I love and he replied.
My boyfriend and I have been through so many things together (I was really sick last year) and we even lived together last year. This year we decided that we would stay we our roommates instead because we both liked them a lot. (Neither of us cared for our roommates last year.) We were still seeing each other a lot (at least 3 times a week) and there was no indication that anything was wrong.
I just don't understand it.
Is it really that he doesn't love me or could there be something else and is there any way we could have worked this out?