Hello Everyone!

I am 21 years old and have not had a serious relationship yet. This one guy at my university has seen be around and sent me comments on Facebook, etc. He seemed like a nice kid, so I answered back. Then he gave me his number and then we hung out like once and kind of made out. The thing about this guy is that he is 18 about to be 19 and is a freshman. Meanwhile I am trying to finish out my last semester as a senior! I know age shouldn't matter, but in this case I feel like it does. I feel like he is a little immature and has less responsiblilities. He is extremely nice and sweet... sometimes too nice.
He's always saying how beautiful I am and wants to be with me all the time. Even when I say I'm trying to finish my literature final, he like disregards it and still wants to see me. Like do you get the point??
I don't know how I feel about him. I have to get to know him, but he is acting too obsessive. I do not know what to do. One minute I like him and the next I'm not so sure. I think it's me too, I'm scraed to be with someone and I don't need to start with him always wanting to be around.

Am I ridiculous? Maybe so.
Any comments or advice would be helpful! Thank you!

Justme.
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Wonder what message making out with a guy you just met sends?

Wonder why you aren't paying attention to yourself, as to the downside of this nice guy? Pay attention when your telling yourself to be careful.

If your not going to take your time, and enjoy getting to know someone, what's the point in investing time, and effort?

You may think he is a nice guy, but do you really know? Found out before you complicate things, by playing kissy face.

It never to late to think with some common sense.

You are the one that sounds like you need you age checked kis
You kissed him you gave him the signs

So yeah tell this nice guy that he is to young and to nice and enjoy the bad guys for a bit see how far you get

There is a huge difference between an 18 yr old male, and a 21 yr old female in terms of maturism. You are his "Mrs. Robinson", or more current, you are his "Cougar." This doesn't sound like anything that will be long term, so let the guy of the hook, and date more within your age group.

I understand what you are saying... I don't know what to say to him now...

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Young men usually mature slower than women. I am a 21 year old man. If you were to meet me when I was a freshman at 18-19, you would be shocked at how different I was.

Most guys feel comfortable dating/being around girls their own age or younger. It just works out that way. The levels of maturity are pretty similar.

Honestly, you're going to graduate and start your real life in less than a year. Is that not daunting? Do you really want to start something up with someone who has 3 more university years ahead of him?

Do you want to be his baby sitter?

Don't worry about trying to find "the one" before you leave college. I see a lot of girls desparately clawing at this false hope that they will find their soul mate in their four years at a university.

Let this one go and grow. You will be doing a lot of that as well later on in the year after you graduate.

The best way to go is to just be honest with him. Tell him that you are just a two different places in your life, and you thinks it's best if you stop your relationship now, before either one of you gets hurt. Tell him you're sorry, but you will be moving on soon, and he has still got several yrs. Of school left. Yet you will be moving onto a different phase of your life, and will probably have different interests. Don't make it complicated. Wish him well, and move on.