So here's the deal. Me and this one guy have been friends for a couple months now. We have a great time when we hang out and we usually hang out once a week *now that school is back in session, we hung out more then that over the summer*. We usually end up watching a movie and hanging out and he stays really late into the night usually not leaving until like 4 in the am. We cuddle. And lately our cuddling has been turning into more. Like dry humping and heavy petting and what not. The thing is is that we he has a girlfriend. And they have been going out for 4 years. I don't really know how we end up getting into the situations that we do. And I'm not sure what to do about it. I like him more then a friend but I'm not sure how he feels. Because he has a girlfriend. We don't really talk about this which is a problem in itself. I'm just not sure how to bring it up and deal with what may or may not being going on with us. What should I do? And does he like me or is he using me?

Put yourself in her shoes and answer the question.

Ok girl

First thing. You need to kick this guy out of your life.

Do you know what he is doing he is cheating on his girlfriend of 4 years!
And you are doing it as well
Knowing full well that he has a girlfirend

So.. Shame on both of you!
Grow up kids.

If he cheats on his girlfriend. He sure as hell will cheat on you

Be SMART
And drop this while you still have your emotions in check.