Hello,

I was wondering if my current sexual drive (which is enormous!) will be hampered in the future if I currently having sex 3-4 times a week?

Thanks for your help! :)

Well, many things can affect your drive... and there is no guarantee your drive or performance won't change over time, but sex 3-4 times a week isn't going to diminish your drive as if you have only a finite number of chances.

A good sex life is largely driven by good health, physical and mental, and many, many things can play into what can derail ones drive or performance... some under our control, some not so much.

So be fit, be healthy, be mentally relaxed about sex. Try to continue to see the pleasure and newness of it every time. Understand stress, anxiety, depression all can hurt drive, even when the source has nothing to do with the bedroom.

But the short answer is that I've seen no study that has shown sex 3-4 times a week is ever going to hurt your long term sex life.

If anything, consistent, enjoyable, healthy sex should enhance your life, boost your mental health, and help keep you on track... and all of these feed back into keeping you primed, ready, and responsive.

I have read a lot about this topic, and there is no reason why having sex 3-4 times a week will have a negative effect on you in the future.

These are some of the most dangerous things for young men to do that will negatively impact their future sex life: watching porn and masturbating, getting obese, and so on. See one of my answers from a week or so ago.

And, don't believe anything in the media, on porn, or what your friends say about male sexuality... IN America, there is a crisis in sexual enjoyment for young folks, and there are many reasons!!

At 70 or 80 it may slow down to less.