I was with a guy for about 6 months. He was super nice to me and gave me everything I wanted. It got to a point where he bored me. He wasn't a challenge. I eventually left him. And 4 months later I miss him and all the nice things he did for me. I want him back but now he is dating other girls and said that he can only offer me a friendship. It hurts. :(

Ner ner

Wait, that's not good advice.

Well don't worry, maybe the girl he's with will get really bored of him. Then he's all yours :p

Damn that's true, I didn't think of that. But he has changed. He is not so dumb anymore.

You have to deal with it.

Im sorry.

I wouldn't recommend being friends with him as this will just hurt you more and probable lead you into a false sens of hope.
That one day you might get together
And it will stop you from living your life.


Try and move.
And let that be a leasson to you.

Once you make an action. You are ready for the reactions. Come what may

he is not so dumb anymore
Well he was dumb enough to go out with you.

Wait, that's nice either

Well the grass is always greener on the other side

Oh by the way, this is meant tongue in cheek, it's not really

I guess so. He wants to be friends but he doesn't act like a friend. He also said that I cannot expect for him to be crawling back to me after me hurting him so much.

Oh I see, he's got the upper hand now. Hmm
Anyway, when he's single again, you might not want him anymore anyway
You sound nice enough, just continue to enjoy life

Well he is still single but he said that he is not going to tell those girls that he cannot continue talking to them because icame back. He's pretty mean now.

Yes

He really did move on, didn't he?
Hey, you're right, he is smart.

Hmm, that's the best answer! You move on too :)
If you're 18 as your name suggests, then you're in for fun times ahead. Not even 21 yet. Par-ty

It is more of his pride than anything.

Give it time. Live your life and enjoy yourself that's the main thing here

I'm 21. 18 is my fav number. :)

But I do think its pride because he claimed to love me sooooo much and wanted to marry me and all of a sudden there's nothing there? Yeah right.

Possibly pride and anger ;)
But I really think he's moved on, normal guy thing, for girls maybe a bit harder to get over (that's sounds sexist, but oh well, normally right)

I guess he has. I'm not going to think too much about it anymore. He is not worth it.

Yeah that b@strd, don't hate him :mad:

Hooray, you're over him :)
I'm glad we had this talk

Hey kim would have disagree there ;)

Its not that easy for guys to move on.
In fact I have seen girls move on more easy than the men.

So yeah that was sexist

And in my view wrong :D

There's a theme here, and you're killing it ;)

Truefaith... are u giving me hope?

I can't edit yet :(

No I'm not giving you hope. We have told you what the guy has done.

I am just saying that not all guys are like that ;) and from my point of view it was the women that always moved on faster than the men.

But then again that is just my view.

I guess you found out its okay to be boring. To late, so find another boring, dumb guy, and it seems like you would have in 4 months.

That guy definitely still has feelings for you, but he is trying to show you that what you did isn't right, you can usually get a good idea of what the person is like from the first few dates. Six months is a long time to realize how boring someone is. I wouldn't even consider that being led-on, it's just lying.