Well I was dating this guy for about 9 months and everything was not perfect he was a major to me he put me down emotionally and controlled who I could and could not be friends with but he was my first love and I tried to ignore the stuff he would do to me by making excuses to everyone but everyone wasn't stupid they knew what he was doing to me my family and friends hated him so my best friend would do everything in her power to break us up to get me to be smart and one day I did I broke up with him and the day after I started talking to her boyfriends best friend and we started dating a week after we have been together for about 5 months and he is PERFECT he is so sweet and nothing like my ex but my heart is not all there I want my ex back but I don't know what to do me and my ex have been talking lately and he promises that he has changed but I know if I went back to him I would lose a lot of my friends especially my best friend and I don't want that the hardest thing about this is I have no one to talk to this about this I don't want to hurt my boyfriend right now but I know what my heart is telling me to do and its to be with my ex but I just need help because I don't want to make a mistake

Doh! Sounds like you got to try girl
You have to go where your heart leads you to, otherwise cranky old woman one day :(

Enjoy

Your the one hurting, and jumping from one guy right to another, is not a good solution.

Heal from your abuse, and get over the ex, and then look around for a healthy guy, to have a healthy relationship with.