I met the man of my dreams about 3 months ago. Before he even spoke, or I even knew his name; I knew I had to be with him. We hung out a couple times, made love, and other random activities and every time my feelings became stronger.

Recently he's been being totally rude, unresponsive, and I can just tell he's over me. We don't even talk anymore unless its sex. It hurts so bad because I wanted to be his girlfriend and I sincerely have feelings for him. I'm not the kind of girl that comes off really strong and needy, in fact I usually very nonchalant so I don't think I pushed him away or anything. He's such an arrogant promiscuous I don't even understand why I feel so strongly towards him. I feel so used by him, especially since he's about 7 years older than I

Anyway, recently my friend and I created a fake Facebook account using pictures of a girl we thought he would find attractive to somehow get back at him. We added him as a friend and surely enough, the NEXT day he was messaging this fake girl asking her to attend one of his concerts (he's a local musician) and telling her how beautiful she was.

How do I use this fake account to get back at him (without him knowing its me) so that I can stop thinking about him? Any good ideas?

Just don't. Why stoop to his level? That's immature of you AND your friend.

Break up with him and move on. That's the best revenge of all.

How Pahtetic

You hardly know him.. you sleept with him real fast..
He is 7 years older than you. ( next time wait a bit before jumping in)

Best Reveng advice...

Move on with your life leave him in the dust and be HAPPY!

My god it scares me to think there are people like this in the world.
Who play petty games
And use emotions as blackmail.

(Fake Facebook account) - (Sigh)

Grow up
Move on

There's a good girl

The name explains it all...

So what you girls in Jr High or High school ?

Most likely report him to the police for sleeping with you, sice you are sounding like a very young girl, so you may not even be legal to have sex.

But basically you let it go, even doing the fake face book is far to childish.

I'm 18 actually Chuck, just trying to have a little fun, besides a broken heart makes you do crazy things. (At least I can spell.)
:)

Well take your spelling B and move on with your life.

Broken hearts do not make us do crazy things.
Our actions do.

We can't control how we feel little one..
But we can control how we act..

So Act well.

I agree with Chuck actually, I would have thought you were much younger too.

This is a site where many people come to release there most inner emotions in trying to deal with the emotional roller coaster of a break up... 10 to 1 there has been people on here that have been on the other side of your childish games.. Now you come here and spew this nonsense your basically portraying yourself as the villain that everyone has lodged in there memory...

Hope you grow up..

You have a whole life ahead of you

Grow up.

Wow I'm not a villain. Maybe my approach is naïve but I'm not a bad person. Thanks for attacking me. My feelings were hurt and I'm saying how I feel and all I get is a bunch of people judging me... thanks

No one said you were a villain but, I feel like you're a better person then what your doing, sounds like you fell in love with a "playa" let him go don't give him your feelings sounds like heartbreak in the future. :-(

We just don't really support the idea of revenge. It's childish. If your post was more geared toward, "how do I get over my ex?" you may have gotten better responses.

Oh come on gril

Don't throw a hissy fit here.

Ok.. we told you the Advice..
Move on and Be happy

You going to stop pouting?

And we got angry about the game playing. Because many of us have been on the other side.. of that.

Yeah your hurt... but it does not give you the right to play games like this.. with other peoples feelings or emotions

The guy you was with.. is an A@@ and he will get what's coming to him.. but not by you.. by his OWN actions!.

We don't really care about him. We are giving you advice. And if it feels like its an attack.
It is just tough love
Because you need people to bang your head and go.. Oii.. stop it.

You have to be the better person here.

Convince him to meet you somewhere, and then have a gay friend or one of your female friends who are not fortunate in the looks department go and tell him that they used a fake picture to get his attention, and that they really like him and want to get to know him. He will feel like a real idiot. ;)

You fell in love with this guy for all the wrong reasons. You might have been looking for love but he wasn't, he was out for a good time and after you realize that you should've stopped being bother with him. Instead you probably thought if you continue to have sex with him his feelings might change but it didn't and now you feel used.

Life lesson, guys and people will only do what you allow them to so in the future keep your feelings under control and know the difference between love and lust a making love vs having sex.

You stated he is arrogant, and promiscuous,that's enough not to want to be bother with him.

Move on and next time control your feelings. Doing something out of anger will not make you feel better and doing what your doing takes too much time and energy when you can be doing something else.

Revenge never satisfies. No matter what you do to "get back" at him, it won't be enough and you will constantly be looking for ways to satisfy your own feelings of bitterness and envy at him for having another girl.

The best way to get over him is to cut him out of your life - completely. Out of your thoughts, out of your Facebook (fake or not), out of your phone, out of your everything.

Make the mental choice to move on and find something better. He's out there for you, forget this guy and go find the right one.

Learn from the responses on this question - revenge never works and makes YOU the bad guy, not him.

The best revenge you can use is making yourself better and more successful without him. Move on and make him realize you don't need him anymore, and you never did. Concentrate on yourself. The more attention you devote to him, the more he is winning.

The best revenge is to move on and live a happy life without him.

Revenge is for 13 year old girls who can't handle a relationship ending

Chalk this up to a learning experience. If you want to pursue a man for a relationship you need to not jump in the sack with him and think that he will have any respect for you.

Try learning about him first, not being his sex toy.

I agree with all you , but seriously in her case she needs even more help than she thinks.

You seriously think it's all worth? It's worth the time of your life you're expending? If you're 18 with this mindset I seriously think you should take a step back and rethink your life...

I wouldn't write her off, she is eighteen, she does need to grow up... no doubt about that. It's silly and ridiculous to be drumming up some way to "seek revenge" for being used.

I just want her to realize that she was the one letting herself be used by this man. There isn't anyone to blame except herself. Revenge is never the answer, but it is good to note that not a single person gave any credance to the notion as it is that ridiculous, just no need to continue to beat her down for being young and foolish.

You get revenge by making yourself better, and not making the same mistakes. That is the ultimate revenge. Wasted effort on this guy does nothing.

I don't agree with blaming yourself for sleeping with him to fast, if he was a REAL man, he wouldn’t play these games, with a girls emotions to get laid!! I must say I been there. I have fallen for the wrong guy because he said the right things just to get into my pants, then treated me like a red headed stepchild after. I learned not to open my heart so fast the hard way too! Take it as a lesson learned and move on. I know it's hard and your hurt but I agree with XXARIESXX walking away is the best revenge there is!!

If you want a relationship with a man, one in which he respects you for who you are, you have an obligation to yourself to ensure that he knows you and that you know him before you sleep with him. It is not about blame, it's about learning from this mistake.

Take this opportunity to learn from your own mistakes and grow. He may be a complete a$$hole but you have to look at yourself if this experience is to benefit you in any way - see him as being an opportunity to learn about yourself and to be a stronger person in the future... if you don't learn from this then the next guy and the next guy and the next will just treat you the same until you learn the lesson! If you seek revenge you will have learned nothing but hate and you are on your way to the next guy to learn the thing that you haven't learned this time..

If you try to get even.. you get even worse!

Delete the Facebook account and move on QUICK!

I agree for the most part, but I have a temper. I consider myself rather collected and well mannered almost all the time, but when someone takes my kindness and love for granted, and then sucker punches me, I know the feeling.

Never was anything wrong with a little vigilante justice. I've done it a few times myself but didn't feel it was an immaturity problem, more so due justice. It all comes down to sucker punching whoever wronged you, and then knowing when to quit and leave it at that.