JuwieeWaky
Nov 20, 2008, 05:00 PM
My and my crush is going out for 2 weeks right now, and I used to think I relly relly like him , but then After he asked me out, I dun like him as much as he likes me, I could tell he love me, but I'm not sure if I ilike him,. I did think about him a lot, today I gave him my first kiss, but then I'm not excited or happy. I kept think about my old crush , I feel like I'm cheating on my boyfriend. I do like my boyfriend but some weird feeling keep coming up and remind me of my old crush , Wat can I do now? :[
Clough
Nov 20, 2008, 07:37 PM
Hi, JuwieeWaky!
How old are you, please? It would be helpful for us to know that in order to help you the best here.
Concerning your question, relationships of any kind can take time to develop into mature relationships. Real, true and enduring love for someone can also take a lot of time to develop. If a person thinks that they "love" someone right away, it's not the same kind of true love that takes time to develop.
Anyone who gets involved with, wants to be involved with or has been involved in a relationship with another person is going to be thinking about them. This is normal.
Even liking or not liking a person can vary over a length of time due to experiences that one might have with the other person.
Dating is a time to practice. It might take dating a number of different people until a person finds the one who is just the right on for them.
Hopefully, others will also come along to address your question.
Thanks!