My girlfriend just cheated on me what should I do should I tell her to break up with him and go back out with me?

You may feel like you like this girl...
But to me cheating is a deal breaker and I would rid myself of her at once!

Wait did she sleep with someone else or is now DATING someone else?

Actually it doesn't even matter, she obviously doesn't respect you so just move on and date someone else.

I am a guy, and I am here to tell you to pick your balls back up and leave her the hell alone. Get her out of your life. Why would you beg her to go back out with you man? She is dirt and doesn't deserve you.

She cheated on you why would you want her back? Can you honestly say you can look at her and not think of her being with some other guy? I know I couldn't.

You may feel like you like this girl...
But to me cheating is a deal breaker and I would rid myself of her at once!!

She cheated on me with my best friend

If she cheated on you, no excuses she's done, unless you really feel for this girl and you have to put it behind you and never bring it up again in future situations and arguments. Can you do that?

Dude, both her and your best friend need to be left behind. That is absurd.

Dude, both her and your best friend need to be left behind. That is absurd.

She said that she wants to be friends with me and she dosdent want me to get mad at her

I don't care what she says. Is she with you... let me talk to her (type to her)

Don't be a moron man.. don't be friends with her.. and you should be angry with her and your best friend X!


Get rid of them both!. they are both scum and should not be in your life..

If you can't see that..

then welcome to a world with only hurt as your partner.

simple as that

The fact that she thinks she can be friends with you after all of this is an insult to you! Do not let her walk all over you like a rug. She seems like a self absorbed person who thinks she can take full advantage of you. NOPE! Neither her nor your so called 'best friend' are worth keeping. Better people are out there!

she said that she wants to be friends with me and she dosdent want me to get mad at her

Screw that! Seriously? She thinks that request is even a possibility? Not only be friends with her and not be mad either? "hey you cheated on me with my best friend but it's ok. I don't mind." even if you did get back together you would most likely never be able to trust her again. I would start moving on, because there are friends and girls out there that will respect you more than that.

Getting back together IS NOT an option for you. Don't even let that slip into your mind.

How old are you?

There are lots of girls out there that are single. But I would recommend taking some time for you before you start a serious relationship with anyone else.

How long were you with your girlfriend before she cheated on you?

P.S. I am a man by the way. I asked your age because I thought you were trying to pick single girls up on this website (thus I thought it was a rather immature question). Just wanted to clear the air here so we are all on the same page.

You obviously didn't care too much about this girl, as you don't really seem that upset about it. So... go find another girl at some random bar if that is what you are looking for.

how long were you with your girlfriend before she cheated on you?

Two years

I'll assume this isn't some kind of prank and forget about the "trying to pick up chicks thing"

So seriously, you need to never talk to this girl again and the same for your best friend. They both treated you like crap and this girl doesn't want to be friends, she just doesn't want you to be mean to her, that's why she said lets be friends.

Get rid of both of them...

Get rid of both of em...

Are you a girl

Amorel, I will say this once and once only.

AMHD is NOT a dating site and if you continue this thread along those lines I will have little option but to remove you.

I trust I make myself clear in this reagrd.

Yes.

Yes.

How old are you

two years

I wouldn't recommend looking for a girlfriend just yet then. Give yourself some time

I wouldn't recommend looking for a girlfriend just yet then. give yourself some time

Are you a girl

I am... and I am also married.

Nice one Zoe! There are plenty of girls out there, nice ones too, that won't cheat. I suggest you press into the future rather than waiting in the past for some girl to come back

she cheated on me with my bestfriend

The same thing happened to me two and a half years ago when our second child was 6months old went to get nappies and never came back. We never saw him for 3 weeks and he asked so I let him back. We are still together but things are different I don't trust him and I can't forget I did it for the kids. My advise would be don't do it I am not happy. But my kids have suffered enough its them I do it for.

Leave her alone someone will make you happy. Once a cheat always a chest (you will be like me unhappy and waiting for the next time he doesn't come home, and I'm only 23)