Hi
Bit of an unusual question... I want to ring my husbands work to find out when and where their having their work christmas party this year.
Last year he made out like he didn't know anything about his works xmas party 2007. He is the big boss (the owner is the bigger boss), so he definitley gets told about these things.

I'm getting the feeling that he doesn't want to take me... and it has happened with other jobs he has had. It makes me feel aweful because Im wondering is he ashamed of me or is hiding what happens at work so I don't get to talk to any of his work colleagues.

Anyway... I was wondering would it be rude or psycho if I rang his work place to ask when theyde be having their xmas party this year??

Hi, seahippie!

The first thing that I'd recommend doing is sitting down with your husband and having a heart-to-heart conversation about what you're thinking and the way that you feel. Do you and he normally have good, open communication with each other? If not, then why not, please? I'm sensing a much deeper issue that needs to be addressed here.

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Hopefully, others will also be along to address your question.

Thanks!