My husband won't except my past, which I thought he had, I knew that he had mixed feelings about, but thought that he got over that. Now everything has blown up in my face. He accuses me of not getting over all that happened to me in my life, but he is the one that keeps bringing eveything up and asking more questions wanting to know "details" He thinks now that I have lost my Sex Drive with him because of all the other men that I have had in my life ( and none of them ended well) He has told me that I need to speak to someone to sort out my head, maybe then we could carry on with our life and why should he be punished for what "they" did. I am not sure what I can do to sort this out? Please help.
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You two need some professional help and fast if you want this marriage to work. What ever is said here is only going to be a reflection of your original post and I am sure that is not the whole story. Find a professional counselor and get the help you need.

Why did you all get married without sorting all of that out first? That will cause a big stain to your marriage life. I suggest that you all go through counseling so that you all can effectively work out your current issues.

Said, past is the past, and unless there is a reason to talk about the past it is best not.

Sounds like you both need to do couples counseling.