Me and my boyfriend met in march of 2007. We never officially said we were dating we just kind of started hanging out and talking more so 8 months later in November he moved in with me. Now we never had been on a real DATE and when we first met and was hanging out it wasn't much and so we never had that boyfriend girlfriend fun dating time and stuff so then he moved in and it went downhill he got in a accident and never got his car back so then I was having to bring him to work everyday a hour drive 4 times a day. Could get annoying then he lost one of his two jobs and I was having to help pay his part of our bills and then after getting in a accident picking him up from work I couldn't work so then he was paying my part of the bills and we just had a lot of struggles. Now he had to move back home because he couldn't pay the rent and bills and be able to get his own expenses paid off so now he doesn't live here anymore but since I don't have a job and he only has one and his money is going to paying off his debts we don't have cell phones and my car is breaking so I can't really drive it. Now the problem is ever since he moved out things have changed MAJOR worst than they were before he moved in. we don't really talk we kind of feel like were falling apart. People are always telling us we aren't going to make it and we needa break up but I try not to pay attention to it because we both know we love each other, but since he hasn't lived here it just sucks.. any ideas on how I can make this thing work.. by the way we are both in our 20's.

Maybe what you need is time, and space to get your individual acts together, and be on more solid ground.

If you haven't develop any communications, then its awful hard to work together, and solve your problems.

It takes two of you, on the same page.