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gabeysmom
Nov 15, 2008, 07:41 AM
My husband and I have been married for 9 years, and we're very happy and planning on conceiving a 4th child soon. However, another man has come into my life in a social situation, and I can't stop thinking about him! I don't want to have sex with him, but I often fantasize about kissing him. What gives?? :confused:

talaniman
Nov 15, 2008, 08:03 AM
That's normal, and healthy to be attracted to others, and even fantasize every now and then.

Just don't act on it, and keep it to yourself, and enjoy the fantasy, as it will pass.

neverme
Nov 15, 2008, 08:34 AM
Not an easy situation though :D but talinman is right, natural and healthy...

LifeChangesMan
Nov 15, 2008, 08:43 AM
Thats normal, and healthy to be attracted to others, and even fantasize every now and then.

Just don't act on it, and keep it to yourself, and enjoy the fantasy, as it will pass.

Smart man. Couldn't of said it better myself.

gabeysmom
Nov 15, 2008, 09:47 AM
Thanks... it's just scary, because it's never happened before, and we've been together for 15 years! I'm definitely not acting on it, and soon, we won't be socializing much anymore.

LifeChangesMan
Nov 15, 2008, 09:50 AM
You have a lucky man. I wish I had the same success, my girlfriend of 4.5 years walked out on me, my stories here, https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/story-could-end-like-280105.html please read and give input if you could, I'd appreciate it.