Log in

View Full Version : Looking for opinions


Mcmasterjd
Nov 13, 2008, 01:18 PM
Here's my situation. We've been dating for ~3 months now. We spend as much time as we can together(almost everyday). The other night my girlfriend and I went to see a concert, I had to drive her home right away because she had school in the morning, we get to her house talked about how much fun we had at the concert. I had to leave so I gave her a kiss and a hug and said "Love you", she kiss and hugged back and replied "Love you" and I replied with a "ya" it was an accident, it just came out. I thought about it for a while and it kind of made it seem like "Love you, ya whatever" but that's not the case. The day after I sent her a "Good Morning Beautiful, Are you awake?" text, I got no reply tell later in the afternoon saying "You think you can just send a goodmorning text and it'll be all fixed". I explained to her that I was sorry about saying "ya", that it was an accident. It goes on for a bit, and she tells me not to call her on my break(We usually call one another on our breaks) because she doesn't want me to call, That was fine she's got stuff to do anyways(school, dance and so on... ) But later she sends a text "Maybe we should take a break for a couple of days". I understand she wants some time to think. I just want some opinions to keep my mood from going sour.

kctiger
Nov 13, 2008, 01:21 PM
Are you serious?? How old are you guys? She wants a break after this? Are you telling me the whole story?

Mcmasterjd
Nov 13, 2008, 01:25 PM
She's 18 and Im 19. In all honesty that's the whole story...

kctiger
Nov 13, 2008, 01:27 PM
Well, she seems a little hotheaded to me. I don't know. I think she needs some time to clear some of her issues up. Obviously this can't be the only thing she is mad about. Maybe she is stressed about school or dance. Maybe it is that time of the month...

kctiger
Nov 13, 2008, 01:29 PM
Just give her some time. I think she is just overreacting a bit... I wouldn't worry about it too much. Perhaps she is just trying to get a rise out of you.

Mcmasterjd
Nov 13, 2008, 01:31 PM
I was thinking its related to school as well, she's been super busy, like 4 tests and a few essays... so we'll see what happens...

plonak
Nov 13, 2008, 03:42 PM
Jeez yea don't stress this.. if she seriously is that mad over it then you shouldn't be with her anyway..

Healthy relationships are about communication.. if she ever had a problem with what you said she should had talked to you about it, instead of making assumptions.. give her time to cool down and have a talk with her (when her tests are done) she needs to grow up

TrueFaith
Nov 13, 2008, 03:52 PM
If she gets mad over something like that..

Then she has major issue.. and you are better off with out her TRUST ME!


This was un called for and very silly of her

ylaira
Nov 13, 2008, 11:23 PM
Give what she wants...break...period