Hey Everybody.
I Could Really Do With Some Advise About This Guy That I Have Been With For About A Month Now. I Have Known Him For About 5 Mounths & Clicked Right Away, After About A Month We Stared 'Seeing' Each Other, This Carried On For About 2 Mounths & When I Asked Him Where I Stood With Him He Said He Just Wanted To Be Friends. Honest I Was Devastated & Tried To Distance Myself From Him As Much As Possible, But It Dident Last Long And In About 3 Weeks Time We Were Back To Being Good Friends Again, I Still Had Feelings For Him, But Knew That They Wouldent Be Returned So Tried My Best To Ignor Them. Once Again He Was Giving Me Mixed Signals & I Had My Reasons To Think He Liked Me Back. After A Confusing Few Weeks, I Got A Phone Call, He Apologized For What He Had Done To Me, & Told Me How He Felt. That Was About A Month Ago, And Ever Since We Have Been Together, It Stared Off Great But Recently He Has Started To Act Very Strange, He No Longer Makes Any Plans To See Me, Or Texts Me e.c.t However When We Do Meet There Is Still P.D.A (Public Displays Of Affection.) For Example Holding Hands, Hugs, Kissies & He Will Happily Say To His Friends That Im His Girlfriend When They Ask, But Something's Just Not Right & I Don't Know What To Do. :( I Have Never Felt This Way About Anybody Before, & I Worry He Doesn't Feel The Same, I Want To Talk To Him But I Am Afriad It Will Just Push Him Away. HELP! :confused:

Sorry For Such A Long Question :p
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It's called communication, a relationship needs it to survive.

I Still Had Feelings For Him, But Knew That They Wouldn't Be Returned So Tried My Best To Ignore Them.

You should have been ignoring him, as he made himself very plain.


He Said He Just Wanted To Be Friends

I think false hope, didn't let you see that you needed to back away, and leave him alone.



I Want To Talk To Him But I Am Afraid It Will Just Push Him Away. HELP! :confused:


You really do need to talk with him, and get some clarifications, as to what the heck his intentions are and if he says just friends, LEAVE HIM ALONE.

DON'T LET YOUR INTENSE FEELINGS, HAVE YOU FALLING FOR ANY OLD FOOLISHNESS FROM HIM.

Thank You, Your Right I Do Really Need To Talk To Him & Find Out What He Wants From This. He's Just So Confusing. He Says That He Likes Me & Wants A Relationship, (& The Only Reason He Did'nt Want One Before, Was That He Did'nt Feel Like He Could Go To College Whislt In A Relationship) But Sometimes He Just Doesn't Show It. I Don't Know, Maybe Im Over Analyzing Everything, But I Can't Help But Feel That Something Is'nt Right.

There's a good chance he just using you for "friends with benefits" That's obviously not what you want;; so find someone worth your time.