Hey you my daughter fiancé and I was born and raise in sc in the lowcountry... me and my ex was living together in sc... I found out that I was pregnanti was excited but for him and his parents they were mad about it.. him and his parenst give me cash to have a abortion.. I sadi heck no I isn't having a abortion... my family and I are against abortions.. thats out of the question... HE BEAT ME SO BAD I END UP IN THE HOSPIATAL WITH A BROKEN JaW 2 BLACKEYES A BUNCH OF STUFF.. MY DAUGHTER BARELY HaD A HEARTBEAT... she made it she was strong like I was.. my jaw was wired for 8 weeks while I was pregnant.. IT WAS TOUGH CAUSE I Couldn't EAT... mY DUGHTER WAS BORN A month earlier she was tough healthy and alert the docs and nurses said... SHE WAS 5LBS... he admitted to court he did beat me.. he got cdv with agrravated assault and battery intent to kill... GOT NO JAIL TIME JUST a SLAP On the hAND AND A FINE... MY DAUgHTER 5 NOW.. I MOVED ON... im engaged to wa wonderful man who has been raising her for over 3 years now... HE WANTS TO aDOPT HER WHEN WE GAT MArRIEd fIRST.. mY daughter CaLLS hIM DADDY... THATS HER DADDY IF YOU ASKE HER... MY DAughter bio father does not want nothing to do with her he told me that several times before.. he has not seen her since she was like a day old.. He did come to the hospital when I delivered her but I didn't want him there so I told the staff what had happened and the security escorted out of the hospiatal... he don't call or send money or gifts for birthday or holidays.. my ex does not want to sign his rights over OR PAY CHILD SUPPORT.. all I want him to do is sign his rights over for my fiancé to adopt her.. HE he making me so stress cause he told me he isn't going to sighn his rights over cause he don't want me to be happy... he doing this stuff for spite I feel like... my faince gets upset cause he won't... my fincae says that's my little girl.if he cared about us he should had not done what he did... WHAT RIGHTS DO I HAVE FoR MY Fiancé TO ADoPT HER WITHoUT HER BIO FATHER WILLING OR BIO FATHER SIGN HIS RIGHTS... please help me of what rights I have
THANKS A lot... XOXOXO ps. I want my daughter to have her last name changed

Why haven't you gone to court for a support order? He can't just not pay if there is an order the court will hold him responsible if you stay on top of it. After you are married for a year then hire an adoption attorney in your area (they are required for all adoptions) he/she will tell you other ways to possibly have the rights of the bio father terminated but at this point since he spent no time in jail or anything you are going to have an up hill battle to force the adoption to go through. The bio parents are more likely to sign to allow the adoption if the court is after them for support so you might want to start there.

You shouldn't have said anything to the bio father until you were ready to file for adoption.

I agree with stinawords, file for child support. Even if he doges paying for a while. You will have some leverage to get him to sign away his rights.

The reason why I have not done it yet cause My daughter fiancé and I are happy... She don't need him.. My fiancé has raised her for a long time now.. I don't want him to try to get in her life now...

I have not yet told the bio father about the adoption...

First, please try to use proper punctuation and sentence structure. Som of what you are saying is confusing.

If you haven't said anything to the bio father about adoption, then sit tight. Get married to your fiancée, what whatever period is applicable to your state then file for adoption. If the bio father refuses to relinquish, then file for child support against him.

OK this is the thing, you have to notify the bio father about the adoption and ask him to sign his rights away, and if he will not, talk him to court to try and take those rights.

Often a man who wants nothing to do with the child will sign them away instead of paying child support,

But the bio father can file in court for visits anytime he wants to, so by not doing anything, nothing will get done.