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KITTEN17
Jun 10, 2006, 11:28 PM
Why is the sex not enjoyable now I am steel having sex with the father and before I got pregnant I enjoyed it
buggage
Jun 11, 2006, 11:12 AM
You are still with the father? Does he know about the pregnancy? I would be very careful sweety, violence is not something to toy with. You got to look out for your little one now too, not just yourself. As far as sex, your body goes through many changes during pregnancy, because of hormones, and physical changes. At times sex may not be enjoyable, other times it may be even more enjoyable then before. It varys from woman to woman, and even at times from day to day. Perhaps it could also be on an emotion line? Perhaps it is not enjoyable being with the father, because you worry about him finding out about the pregnancy, and what he will do. You might want to step back and take a look at why you are still with him? Take care of yourself, and your little baby sweety, and keep in touch. Ps. How far along are you?
J_9
Jun 12, 2006, 06:44 AM
I have to agree with the above answer. Why are you still with this guy? I thought he was violent. I would be very concerned with the well being of your unborn child. I was under the belief that you were going to file for a restraining order because the last girl that was pregnant by him lost her child at his hand.
That being said, you your body goes through tremendous hormonal changes during pregnancy. These hormones can cause sexual changes. This can also be an emotional issue as buggage said above.
Right now your child should be the most important thing in your life. Take care of that baby Kitten. You will be okay without him.
Krs
Jun 12, 2006, 07:21 AM
I believe the above replies are well said. Take note.
I don't know much about your situation but from what I read, is your partner violent?
Could another reason why you are not enjoying sex with him is because you don't feel as much for him nowadays?
KITTEN17
Jun 12, 2006, 04:37 PM
I stopped seeing him when I found out that was pregnant I did get an order of protection but I was pregnant the last time we had sex I just did not know it yet
Krs
Jun 13, 2006, 12:19 AM
Stay away from him. Keep your distance!
You are so young, you don't need a savage for a man!
Concentrate on your future and child's now.
KITTEN17
Jun 13, 2006, 12:25 AM
Thank you very much for the advice