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Icingonthecake
Oct 31, 2008, 01:19 PM
I wrote about two months ago asking about my ex-boyfriend and I starting a friendship and possible relationship again. Here is the latest: We have been spending nearly every single evening together cooking dinner, watching movies, talking or playing games with our children (he has 3 and I have 1). We have the best of times - we laugh constantly and get serious when needed. I decided this time around to let him contact me through phone or text and he does every single day without fail. The issue is we have not had any physical contact - it is strictly platonic thus far. I don't want to push the issue as I don't want to seem well, pushy. I am crazy about this man and don't know how to approach the subject. We broke up a year and a half ago simply because it wasn't the right time for either of us. He initiated the contact again and we spoke for about a month before we started seeing each other again. Should I let him take his time? Maybe he isn't attracted to me? I don't know! Help guys and gals!

TrueFaith
Oct 31, 2008, 02:10 PM
And here I was thinking it was us men finding the right time to make a move :)

I would say put the kids round your moms house take him out for a nice dinner.
Or somewhere personal

And have a nice talk with him

Tell him about your feelings.. but let him know that if he is not ready you understand.
It is just something you need to get off your chest.

It sounds like you guys have a great time. And you was together.

But if you do talk to him be ready for things to change. It could change for the better or for the worse.

All the best

talaniman
Oct 31, 2008, 08:45 PM
If you can't honestly express your feelings, what kind of friends are you?

Had one of you moved on, and been involved, my advice would be different, but since you both are just having fun, then you could stand to talk.

He may be as afraid to say anything as you are.