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Shane50
Oct 31, 2008, 09:59 AM
Me and my girlfriend have been dating 5 months yesterday and things have been going good. But I think I might be losing my spark for her. We spend at least a little time with each other everyday. I work very hard and I'm also going to college so I was wondering if spending so much time with her is killing my spark for her. It feels like I don't have time for myself or I don't have very much time to spend with my friends. I love her dearly and we are best friends. I was just wondering what could I do to regain that spark? Could someone through out some Ideas?

Thanks,

Shane50

Romefalls19
Oct 31, 2008, 10:07 AM
Don't spend so much time together then, if you cannot juggle a relationship and friendships you may need to take a step back and analyze the situation a bit more. Surrounding yourself around someone all the time is not healthy, everyone needs their own thing to do with their own time.

Wondergirl
Oct 31, 2008, 10:15 AM
A woman likes her man to be romantic. Here's a site all about love and relationships including this page with many clickable links that will give you romantic ideas to consider, such as "How to Get Anyone to Find You Irresistibly Attractive" and "How to Come up With Romantic Ideas" and "How to Impress Your Girlfriend" plus articles for yourself under the second link I posted::

Love and Romance - how to articles from wikiHow (http://www.wikihow.com/Category:Love-and-Romance)

http://www.wikihow.com/Category:Maintaining-Relationships

plonak
Oct 31, 2008, 10:31 AM
You're in the 5-6 month range where the hunnymoon phase is starting to end. Those gaga feelings aren't there anymore and it's normal.. now it's really a matter of if you still want to be with the person..

Don't feel bad about it.. Like the other people have said on here don't see her everyday.. get some interests of your own without her.. then you guys will have something to talk about when you get together.. it's important to be independent in a relationship..

talaniman
Oct 31, 2008, 11:30 AM
Keep your life balanced with other things you enjoy besides her.

nobodyfamous
Oct 31, 2008, 12:19 PM
Too much of anything can cause burnout. It doesn't mean either of you are not just as in love as the first day.

Absence breeds fondness. It works. Good luck, man!