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tanya31
Oct 22, 2008, 10:01 PM
I've just recently realized that I'm struggling with my sexuality... I have a boyfriend, whom I'm extremely attracted to. But now I'm noticing, that if I want to be turned on, I turn to the female body. I haven't actually done anything with a female, only looked at pictures.. I've always thought that I was very straight.. but now I'm wondering if I'm bi? I really don't know what would classify me as bi or what. Can anyone help me?

neverme
Oct 22, 2008, 10:55 PM
As long as your happy in your relationship stay there. If you feel that this is hindering your relationship then you need to go and find out... I no that's not really an answer but its all I've got! :)

binx44
Oct 23, 2008, 10:10 AM
I had quite a hard time coming to understand my bi-sexuality. I am extremely attracted to women but I have been with the same man for (counts... LOL) almost 8 full years. You very well might be bi-curious... a woman's body is a thing of beauty and just oozes sexuality in my opinion and I can understand why anyone would want to be with a woman... be you a man or another woman. Have you talked to him about this at all or do you think it would push him away.

Choux
Oct 23, 2008, 11:23 AM
American women are conditioned to being drawn to females and have sexual feelings for other women... that's what the advertising business makes a fortune off!! Products are sold in magazines and television to WOMEN by posing beautiful half-clad women for eye appeal while promoting the product. :D

My opinion, women have to work at being attracted physically toward males in America because of advertising and the wealth of half-naked women bombarding us every day from media.

The media is really a big problem for women. Forced body images, impossible standards set, air brushing, all the power of the media degrades the average good looks of everyday women who are the heart and all that is good in our society.

Xrayman
Oct 23, 2008, 03:52 PM
Some people call this bi-curiousness, you may be bi-sexual but generally you understand at a young age that you are attracted to men and women (bi-sexuality) so I'd say that you are perhaps just bi-curious and extending your sexual repertoire, there is an element of attraction by women to the feminine aesthetic, which I suggest is due to society' acceptance of female to female attraction, but also it is a feminine psychological state to admire beauty and sensuality maybe due to more right-brain activity in women.

THIS IS HIGHLY GENERALISED, mind you.